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[nyecamden]

ETA: For those that don't know, I'm very overweight myself. Just under 20 stone/just under 280 pounds. /edit

Poll

Comments

[jasonelvis]

I said that those things don't matter to me but they might do a little bit. I had a very skinny boyfriend when I was in my early 20s but these days I think I like people with more meat on their bones.

[nyecamden]

I like people I can cuddle.

[alisoneales]

I don't think cuddleability has anything to do with body mass index. In fact I'd say two of the top three cuddlers I've met have been pretty skinny.

I don't know, there's perhaps something onomatopoeic about the word 'cuddly' that makes some folk associate it with overweight.

[nyecamden]

I went with a severely thin bullimic woman and the cuddles I had with her were uncomfortable.

[lizblackdog]

I've been with skinny, average and fat people - I've found that what attracts me to people isn't dependent on their weight.

[artremis]

i've said those things don't matter because i did used to have a very overwieght girlfrind (who is still my good friend) so size/shape is not the basis of whether i date someone or not, but i do find skinnyness atractive (there is some complicated family of orgin stuff behind that but i think even without that i'd proabaly find peple in the really thin to chubby range most attractive)