Today I heard, in some detail, that one of my favorite people is moving out of my part of the country. We could, of course, promise to stay in touch. It might even be that we do stay in touch.
But it is more likely that we won't ... or that we will continue to think of each other warmly but maintain the connection in a most limited way. Annual '
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I wonder if it is even possible to savor relationships fully until they recede through evolution, illness, growth, healing, and just plain moving on ... which includes both death and folks packing up and moving to new environs in the manifest world ... whatever, it is still a loss.
So yeah, go on ahead and cry. It will do ya good after all. "Can't feel better till you're through the worst." - something I imagine my Nana would say to me while I sobbed as a child ...
I do that sometimes, half remembering old sayings from my elders right when I need them ... This one surfaced as my eyes teared up with you ... so I decided to share it ... from my heart to yours.
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Thanks so much for your welcoming ear, your heartfelt understanding. Reading each other's blogs is the next best thing to being there. *grin*
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Love to you.
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Thanks for listening. Thanks for letting me know you're there.
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(SHeeesh, what convoluted language! ...oh, well.)
I am very glad we were both paying attention. I am very glad we both took the risk of following up. I am so very glad to have your shoulder to cry on, too.
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I, too, am grieving a "little death" -- that feels huge and painful and bottomless at the moment. In leaving Santa Fe, I have also left a dear, dear friend, a woman I fell passionately and deeply in love with. Although the friendship can continue via phone & email, ours was a very sensual relationship. As in involving the physical senses: food, dancing, cuddling. I almost missed my flight saying goodbye to her...
It is only my first day of this separation and I know it will, eventually, get easier. But just now it hurts like hell...
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Glad to hear you made your flight. Sorry you're having to miss the physicality of a cuddlesome relationship.
It's lovely to find our experiences reflecting one another. Thanks for saying so.
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