I dunno you THAT well, but I do know you indirectly introduced me to my husband so... yeah. I wub you and stuff and you've always been a good person to me. <3
What, really? That's not true at all! D: If anything I sometimes get a little intimidated by my friends as a whole, but you have never rubbed me the wrong way. ♥
I need to find the balance there, too, with how much I care. I can't keep getting myself sick every other night with worry and fear for people; it does nothing good for anyone.
I think this is exactly what I have to remember a lot too. All this stuff is easier said than done, which sucks, and it's a long progress of learning people's comfort levels and how those match your own and recognizing the difference between what lengths you SHOULD go to for people rather than the lengths you may want to go for them (being one may be less healthy than the other, even if it is-- as you said-- out of love). Blah blah blah, basically, I think it's pretty strong of you to recognize this stuff and that you're looking for a way to approach it and better yourself. Not a lot of people would do that, especially because habit can be comfortable, even if it's miserable sometimes. ): You can do it. ♥
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I DID?
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I think this is exactly what I have to remember a lot too. All this stuff is easier said than done, which sucks, and it's a long progress of learning people's comfort levels and how those match your own and recognizing the difference between what lengths you SHOULD go to for people rather than the lengths you may want to go for them (being one may be less healthy than the other, even if it is-- as you said-- out of love). Blah blah blah, basically, I think it's pretty strong of you to recognize this stuff and that you're looking for a way to approach it and better yourself. Not a lot of people would do that, especially because habit can be comfortable, even if it's miserable sometimes. ): You can do it. ♥
/talks forever
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Thank you for this
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