Start with the basic, simple things, the things you have the most control over. Get things cleaned up, focus on your career, do what needs to be done for it. Once you have one thing under control, move on to the next thing.
For instance, I currently focus nearly entirely on my job and career at the moment. My goals for the next six to twelve months is: "get my crane ticket. Become a good crane driver". That's my focus, everything else is secondary.
It's all there, so piece it a part, it's like a puzzle that was never meant to be put together, because the pieces look cute, but they don't mesh well together.
So take one piece, and focus on that part of the puzzle. Make it's best. Like your work, figure out the programming, kick ass at all of it, and then you'll get a raise, etc. Things will look up.
It all could be, the reason you arn't doing anything, maybe it's not that you're scared, but you're not confident enough? You don't feel you deserve it? I don't know, I just know I have that issue a lot.
What you should do doesn't matter. What matters is what you do. And you'll do things. you got to many people rooting for you to not.
The thing is, it just feels like theres not enough time to focus on everything i want to do and yet because I can't decide what I want to do first or try to do, it doesn't happen Dx Bleh.
And yeah, I have no confidence in myself. My new boss had a talk to me about 'believing' in myself otherwise people are going to walk all over me. He means well but I feel I can't 'believe' in myself until I know the entire ropes of the company or whatever it is he wishes me to do Dx it's a lot to take in.. and I keep making silly mistakes...sigh.
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I don't know. I miss you.
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:O we should ttly move out with Nicole
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For instance, I currently focus nearly entirely on my job and career at the moment. My goals for the next six to twelve months is: "get my crane ticket. Become a good crane driver". That's my focus, everything else is secondary.
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It will happen with time.
Just give it time <2
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It's pretty awesome to hang out with me. Just sayin'.
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I know what you mean, it can be hard...
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<3 miss talking to you.
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It's all there, so piece it a part, it's like a puzzle that was never meant to be put together, because the pieces look cute, but they don't mesh well together.
So take one piece, and focus on that part of the puzzle. Make it's best. Like your work, figure out the programming, kick ass at all of it, and then you'll get a raise, etc. Things will look up.
It all could be, the reason you arn't doing anything, maybe it's not that you're scared, but you're not confident enough? You don't feel you deserve it? I don't know, I just know I have that issue a lot.
What you should do doesn't matter.
What matters is what you do. And you'll do things. you got to many people rooting for you to not.
One step at a time.
<3
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And yeah, I have no confidence in myself. My new boss had a talk to me about 'believing' in myself otherwise people are going to walk all over me. He means well but I feel I can't 'believe' in myself until I know the entire ropes of the company or whatever it is he wishes me to do Dx it's a lot to take in.. and I keep making silly mistakes...sigh.
Thanks bby <3 ily :)
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