When I first started out in online fandom, lurking about and trying to learn the rules, I read a myriad of posts that described lengthy, thoughtful, balanced, constructively-critical feedback as the rare but much-sought-after Holy Grail for fanfic authors--so that's what I did my best to send. (
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But I'll take you up on it.
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Whether this ultimately proves a more "wieldy" approach, I suppose only time will tell--thanks for participating!
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That's where I think the time-delay inherent in online communication can be really useful: one has the option of taking a day or so to get past that initial defensive response before posting a reply...at which point, one is much more capable of being objective about the value of the advice offered, and of replying politely even if one disagrees with it.
Thanks for your comments, and for participating!
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But seriously, I'd respect and value your complete opinion on my work, precisely because I respect and value yours. And I come from a family in which concrit is a way of showing love, so I won't take it the wrong way (which isn't to say I won't sometimes say "but hang on, what makes you say that?").
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I wish I could think of a better word for that part of concrit than "negative"--since the aim of it is, after all, positive in intent--but the thesaurus isn't helping so far. Perhaps something will come up on A Word a Day...
And I come from a family in which concrit is a way of showing love, so I won't take it the wrong way (which isn't to say I won't sometimes say "but hang on, what makes you say that?").Hee! Am now imagining a "Concrit is love" version of one of those ubiquitous LJ banners. And responding with further clarification and discussion would be great actually: one of the things that really struck me in Pouncer's post was her pointing-out of the contrast between the kind of discussion we feel comfortable engaging in with regard to our fannish source material itself (in which we freely acknowledge weaknesses in plot, characterization, etc.--or disagree at length over what those are--in addition to squeeing over positive things) and the kind of discussion we feel ( ... )
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Actually, I'm working on a novel-length story that I think might be just your thing. You're one of the people whose response I'd be very interested in, anyway. *g* None of it is going to see the light of day for months yet, but eventually I'll be posting it as a WIP.
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Thanks for participating!
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