My father is an ass!

Dec 29, 2008 04:39

My dad and I were supposed to go to the hospital to visit my mother on Sunday and it ended up where he had to wait for a delivery. The man who was delivering it had to do it then otherwise we wouldn't get him again until mid-January. So my dad stayed home and I went to the hospital myself. The visit went fine until I was about to leave. My ( Read more... )

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supersonic721 December 29 2008, 10:53:28 UTC
Sorry to hear that. But I don't get it: Why doesen't your dad even care about your mom?

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nightshade24 December 29 2008, 11:06:46 UTC
It's not that he doesn't care. But he's the type to just be calm and collected in a crisis--and I'm not. But I respect how he is, but he doesn't respect that I sometimes want to cry and rage about how much I'm scared that she's in the hospital.

So all in all he's an insensitive jerk.

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supersonic721 December 29 2008, 11:09:07 UTC
Oh, I see. Well, I can understand that.

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haylzee December 29 2008, 12:02:40 UTC
D: *hugs* He should be more considerate of how you feel, of how this is all affecting you.

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nightshade24 December 29 2008, 20:29:26 UTC
I'm starting to see how men are generally asses. Ugh.

*hugs back*

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chicaintcheap December 29 2008, 13:27:05 UTC
:(

God, that sucks. My dad is the cool, collected, bastardly type as well -_- It gets annoying after a while, doesn't it?

But once again, I hope your mom feels better soon :( It really sucks that she's missing the holidays, just make sure you stay with her so she has some family love and support :)

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nightshade24 December 29 2008, 20:30:32 UTC
Thanks, Lynn. *hugs*

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majestrix January 1 2009, 08:21:12 UTC
First of all *hugs* I miss you so much girl. I think of your mother often, and I hope whatever karma I had coming toward me can go to her. I want you both happy and healthy coming into this new year. Second, I tried to call, but the number I have no longer works. Could you email me with your new one and the best times to call you? I'm good for when you need to rant.

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nightshade24 January 1 2009, 08:59:15 UTC
Hi, hon. Thanks for the well wishes and I miss you as well. We need to make a time to chat soon ( ... )

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majestrix January 1 2009, 09:06:51 UTC
Ok, you're right. That's some serious negligence going on there. If you were able to find that information on the internet, then it should've been included in the information the doctor had. I hope you find a crack lawyer that sues the pants off of them. There had to have been other medicinal alternatives, there almost always are.

As for the phone, don't worry about it, spacing is normal in such trying times, I just wanted to let you know that I had reached out, that's all. (And I'm definitely not offended, so you just put that out of your mind right now.)

As for the no sleeping, you might want to take something so you can sleep one good day, because in exhaustion, things look so much worse. I found that out the hard way.

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nightshade24 January 1 2009, 21:59:29 UTC
I am definitely happy that you're trying to help. You're a sweetheart. *squishes*

Thank you.

And yes, I took a tylenol pm last night and slept straight for about 9 hours. So yeah I'm all bright eyed and bushy-tailed right about now.

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