Comments | niassa_c: Drama drama drama

niassa_c

Drama drama drama

May 09, 2006 19:07

Ok I finally did it. I confronted my roommate. I came home and my kitchen was segregated. All her stuff on one side and mine out on the counter or in a drawer. By this I mean every drawer is now hers or mine, no mixing. She moved her coffee maker and such to one side and put the can opener over on the other counter with my roll of paper towels ( Read more... )

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trulybloom May 10 2006, 02:08:42 UTC

OMG, such stress! Hang in there - I'm rooting for "nerves of steel"!

niassa_c May 10 2006, 02:14:41 UTC

Yeah, stress is the word. I really want to talk to her about it more but she's more than riled up. All I wanted was a reason for moving my stuff and it became this argument.

lol, the face she made when I became snarky was priceless though! She really wasn't expecting me to stand up and say what I wanted.

trulybloom May 10 2006, 02:48:51 UTC

Good for you in standing up to her and saying what you thought; that's probably what is going to help get this solved, but it sounds like you need to keep at it ( ... )

niassa_c May 10 2006, 02:53:48 UTC

God, I'm sooooo passive agressive though! I am going to try just to see how she's going to handle it. If she doesn't take my apology well, I won't worry so much.

I'm not going to delibertly do anything annoying, so I hope she does the same. I just hope getting that stuff off my chest helps.

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weasywonk May 10 2006, 16:26:11 UTC

Its about time you shouted at her, is what i think. you go girl! haha, hopefully now she wont think that your just a pushover and will start to act a bit more like a nice roommate!

and yes, i would lock my door, just in case she does decide to be a bitch and do something. think of it as being cautious, not that your being changed in anyway.

anyways, keep strong! and hopefully it will all sort itself out!

niassa_c May 10 2006, 16:43:37 UTC

I actually feel better that my frustration is out, but it's kind of replaced with a dread that we'll fight again. I'm glad that now I can stop being overly-nice toward her. I had hoped she would grow up and take care of her end of the chores but I guess it's time to try something new. All I want is an end the the inconsiderate behavior!

Thanks! I'm glad that I had here to vent all term.

weasywonk May 10 2006, 20:56:41 UTC

yeah, i think that it is good to get any frustration out!
can you not kick her out of the apt? lol, thats what id do! hehe

you can vent all you like here! its great!

niassa_c May 10 2006, 21:07:44 UTC

Nope, can't kick her out. We got matched up by the complex on separate leases. Unless it's something major, they won't do anything.

You can cancel a lease for a $200 fee and then move, but I'm not leaving the place I've been for the last three years. And like I put in the post, she said she wasn't moving either.

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