Second, you are an utterly fantastic person and you deserve so much better than what you ultimately got in the past year. You absolutely are beautiful and interesting. Anyone who makes you feel otherwise is not worthy of you.
Third, it's totally natural for you to grieve what you lost. For the time that you had it, even if you were being manipulated by at least one of these guys, it was real to you and as such, it matters. This stuff happened. You were as totally invested in these relationships as you could possibly have been at the time, and because you have such an amazing capacity for love, that's a hell of a lot of investment. And I think that you know as well as I do that pretending that everything's OK will only backfire in the long run
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Hiding how you feel won't work out in the end, it never has. If you want me to talk to him about it, let me know- I've been in almost exactly the same spot he is.
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Second, you are an utterly fantastic person and you deserve so much better than what you ultimately got in the past year. You absolutely are beautiful and interesting. Anyone who makes you feel otherwise is not worthy of you.
Third, it's totally natural for you to grieve what you lost. For the time that you had it, even if you were being manipulated by at least one of these guys, it was real to you and as such, it matters. This stuff happened. You were as totally invested in these relationships as you could possibly have been at the time, and because you have such an amazing capacity for love, that's a hell of a lot of investment. And I think that you know as well as I do that pretending that everything's OK will only backfire in the long run ( ... )
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