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nancytoday

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Nov 05, 2014 07:50

The back door lock has failed. The door won't open. The bolt part is stuck in the shut position. I took it apart. It fell on the outside and I'm on the inside ( Read more... )

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Comments 6

Mainly Carole anonymous November 5 2014, 14:12:47 UTC

I've said it before n I'll say again. Slow down with being the glue for everyone. You might accomplish everything in this lifetime but breathe more n deeper n take more care of you. You try to handle so much. You are your number one priority and after that family. Well ok, your God is first but that doesn't mean church activities. It means a relationship of your deepest self with the highest authority. And if driving all over creation does it for you then honor that calling within you...if plausible as part of your self medication. Happy Trails dear Miss Nancy. Best wishes your way.

ext_2860672 November 5 2014, 15:16:03 UTC

Drive to a private spot, make a video and articulate your thoughts in a verbal manner. Then delete it. We all have limits, ends to our patience, a bottom to our wells. You are not without love, but you are also not without the negative things. Get those out so that you have more room for love. :)

--Ginger from Facebook

depression anonymous November 5 2014, 15:19:41 UTC

That was good advice, Carol. Ditto from me. Go for a long,long drive. Surrender to not being on top of anything at all.

Try to be happy! anonymous November 5 2014, 20:39:15 UTC

My Dear Nancy, after reading your post, I want to drive to Canada and give you a great big hug! I'm sorry that you're feeling down and overwhelmed. If you need to drive, then get in that cute little car of yours and drive! Maybe getting away from the house during renovations would be good for you!! I am praying for you with all my heart and wish you the best. Much love, NicoleMarie

I Can Relate... anonymous November 6 2014, 05:43:16 UTC

A couple of years ago we went through extensive kitchen and bathroom renovations. I hired a worker who stretched the misery out for 6 months and then I had to hire someone else to do stuff the other guy was incapable of doing. That took another 2 weeks during which time we were w/o a toilet for 2 days and had to stay in a hotel. We had to bathe using a 5 gallon bucket for a week and a half; my kitchen floor was torn up; the bathroom floor was torn up; all the plumbing was completely ripped out; the doors were off of my cabinets, cupboards and pantry and everything was removed for painting; all the appliances were pulled out and disconnected; an exterior wall was completely ripped out, etc..., etc... etc ( ... )

Re: I Can Relate... nancytoday November 9 2014, 11:58:17 UTC

You really lived through a lot, didn't you! It's been seven months now. I think I'm seeing light at the end of the tunnel. I have downsized a lot with all the pulling things out from the walls. There is still more stuff left than I can find room to store or even hide in a closet!