The National Institute of Mental Health is abandoning the DSM. This is potentially monumental, and I've seen very little mention of it anywhere. Partly, I think, because people don't really grok how big a deal this is.
This is a very good thing, and for those who don't grasp why, I will try to explain. (Though the link does a really great job of
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But hell- it's HANDY. When there's a crisis, I can step in, cold, and handle it... and then fall apart later. How is that a Bad Thing? It's sure been really handy, both for myself in an abusive childhood, AND for others, like when my husband had a stroke (that fortunately turned out minor).
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Needs to be HEARD.
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I am FASCINATED by your guides, because YOUR whole deal is so different from MY whole deal, yet. . . .
It's just really cool. I find the whole thing amazing. I want to hug your girls. And am super-curious about the potential fourth. I'm sure she'll show up when it's time.
I know a lot of people believe in "their" guardian angel who shows up when shit gets real, and I can't help thinking that's a version of what you experience.
To their credit, every professional I have confessed this to, after listening to me describe what it is and how it works, has been impressed with the strength of the coping response, and has agreed with me that it's a healthy, sustainable, workable solution to a problem that medicine simply cannot at this time solve or even, to any great degree, alleviate. Granted, they could be putting something totally different in the notes, I don't know, but they don't seem to think it's maladaptive, at least ( ... )
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Back atcha.
and she liked to soothe people and comfort people, even victims before feeding. That sounds SO MUCH like some of the characters I have had. Some of the most unlikely characters have had powerful nurturing/protecting instincts. Eve, the evil superheroine?* Mama bear all OVER the place. Literally the last thing I expected out of her, but turned out to be a core feature of her personality. I liked her a lot better after I realized that ( ... )
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