Coping with shit.

Mar 21, 2011 15:50

Dreamed about holding my kitty. Wondered how long that would take. It was a nice dream, and I didn't wake up sad or anything. I think this is officially the longest I've ever gone without holding her. I took a week-long trip years ago, and it's been about a week. Sucks ( Read more... )

tazendra, cats, grief, animals

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labelleizzy March 21 2011, 21:07:45 UTC
Hug.
sometimes it's all you can do to breathe in, breathe out, do the thing.
Lather rinse repeat.

until you can do something a little more.

Thinking of you and Sargon.

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the_vulture March 21 2011, 21:24:14 UTC
Is there anyone there to help with some of the day to day stuff? That might make some of the bigger challenges a little easier for you.

*hugs*

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rowangolightly March 21 2011, 21:32:29 UTC
I get this, I really do. I have gone weeks this winter not accomplishing jack shit because I just couldn't.

I'm thinking of you a lot these days; I wish I could do more. It sucks a whole lot and only time will make it hurt even a little less.

It's one of those times that the distance thing also sucks because I would totally come and help you do stuff like laundry or whatever.

*hugs*

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vamprayne March 21 2011, 22:27:34 UTC
When I lost my Diabetic cat, she came to me in a dream. Shecame to tell me that we did the right thing, that she was happy and not to blame myself. It was the most wonderful dream. I woke up smiling, but in tears.
I miss that fat ass bitch so much, lol.

*hugs*

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Diabetic ankhorite March 26 2011, 05:40:12 UTC
I took in a foster dog last May. She developed diabetes six weeks later and became unadoptable. Two weeks ago, she went completely blind in only six days, and I have forked over more than two mortgage payments to get her sight back (it is! it is!)

So I understand, I do, I do. I'm shooting Gem twice a day and it's a pain in the ass (and her neck) that I hope we both have for years and years. She's six, maybe seven, in a breed which lives until 12.

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Re: Diabetic vamprayne March 27 2011, 02:54:26 UTC
I can't even remember how much I spent on my Sugar girl! She was diagnosed as diabetic at 13, and with diet and 2/day shots, she lived another 3 years. it got to the point that if I'd oversleep, she'd come wake me for her shot. I think it was more the loss of her "daughter" (we got Asimov just after Buddie got fixed, she was the only female Buddie would tolerate)
Azzie had a stroke two weeks prior. it was a real rough patch.

Congrats on loving Gem enough to change your life. I know from experience, that having a sugar baby is twice as sweet!!

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siliconshaman March 21 2011, 23:05:17 UTC
*hugs*

Some days, all you can do is make it from one minute to the next, one day after another.

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