Hello! i found you on that Fugazi thing, i hope that's ok. just call me J. im from tacoma. im not really an internet person, but my friend told me about the journal thing and ya. what's your favorite album of Fugazi's?
Interesting....racundishOctober 18 2004, 20:49:23 UTC
i guess you have a point, but don't you think that if 2 people weren't fixated on eachother but loved eachother(which is hard to accomplish)that that would be meaningfull and worth while?
Re: Interesting....myfelicityOctober 21 2004, 17:37:36 UTC
But it's hard to find that sort of meaningful and worthwhile relationship... Almost everyone has to go through the break-ups and jerks and sluts and heartbreaks. Everyone starts out fixated on the other person, thinking it was love... But it's absurdly difficult to distinguish lust from love. And lust doesn't necessarily have to be just a short-lived thing... Either way... I guess what I'm saying is: Sure! The true-love relationships are worth it, but I haven't had one yet... Just the silly fixations that end up breaking me into pieces.
I totaly agree. people these days don't know the difference between love and lust, fixation, and even friendship. And i'm sorry that you haven't had much luck with finding love. No one realy knows how to descibe love untill they recieve it and can return the favor, but my definition is (selfless acts that are done to make another person life better for them, while mantaining repect and kinship, in physical relationhips or platonic relationships) and there's more but i don't have the time. write me back though, and give me some idea where your coming from.
I was in a relationship with a boy for about a year. It fell together fast and it was formed by a lusty friendship. Several months before that, I broke up with the first boyfriend I ever had. It was all very high school-movie-esque. Of course I was wary of this new relationship, but it collapsed into something I didn't think I would ever experience -- with him, nonetheless. We were quick to admit the feeling of "love" and it probably truly was love during at least half of the relationship. But like every good man in the world, he decided he wasn't ready for a committed relationship, broke up with me... only to toy with my heart some more by wanting to get back together, then breaking up, and then wanting to get back together again. That time around, I denied it and said it was a wiser choice if we figured out how to make ourselves happy. And, as predictable as the sunrise, I was still feeling these deep feelings about him two months after the relationship, and he claimed he no longer felt them toward me. So... bitter and cynical, I
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Wow. that's mest up. It's too bad that you haven't found a guy who you can hold and love and visversa(sp?), while not falling into the ideas that you NEED to become something more. But he would have to be a very wholesome, kind, and unhorny.
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