Girls with anger problems and the subsequent conflicts...

[mulletsquirrel]

Last night I was playing Ragnarok Online like I usually do at night, just talking to some friends. Everything was going fine, and I think we were all having a pretty good time, when all of a sudden one of them (The one who has been starting fights with me from the beginning) flips out on me for no apparent reason. It was completely insane, and I

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[lonelydescent]

I can kinda see what she's saying with the why don't you sell it, but you weren't like GIMME STUFF NOW. In fact, you weren't really trying to beg or anything. She offered to get you stuff and you were like "sure," is all. I dunno. I like Niph but sometimes she gets kinda weird about things. I don't really see where you're being sneaky and disrespectful (though I explained the whole girl thing to you before). I wish people could just get along but in this case, I don't think that it's totally your fault. and the whole thing before where she thought you were trying to scam is kinda retarded... you said you were gonna sell something for a ridiculously low price and someone else asked if you meant 250k instead of 250z and you were joking around... I dunno. I guess it's hard to understand when people are joking online. I don't really understand why she got so mad... *shrug* I guess people are gonna do what they're gonna do.

[mulletsquirrel]

I can see how the other arguments with her in the past could be seen as me being at fault, but this one's different. Yes, I found a nice hat. That doesn't make me Bill Gates.

About the girl thing: That's just how I talk sometimes. You know that. I'll be like "Good job, girl!" or "What's up, girl?" You know I don't mean it disrespectfully.

Whatever the case, no disrespect was ever intentioned. I was really careful about that this time, because of what happened before. I think I'm learning =)

[lonelydescent]

Right... I dunno. I always suck at making money because I spend it on pots and stuff... so I can level. Maybe when I get to be a higher level I will be able to make money instead of blowing it.

I know it's just how you talk, but I explained it offline. :P

I think you did a pretty good job of not beind a dick this time... which is saying a lot for you. ^^;

[mulletsquirrel]

Hehehe... Thanks, hun ^^
It means a lot to have friends who understand. At least I know I'm not crazy!

I'd be glad to help out with money or items as soon as I get some of either. =P Just let me know if I can help you sell anything.

Hmmm..

[arecii]

I can see both sides to this.. By maybe seeing you w/the hat that you luckily found she prolly assumed you were rich and just were using her for free items.. which isn't the case at all.. by having /rich type items/ people auto-assume you are loaded.. in which you did tell her you found the hat off a mini-boss.
From this log.. I don't see you begging for items or zeny. You simply asked her about some items Anne told you about her giving you... She assumed alot here.. calling you a sneaky thief.. which you aren't at all. You were simply inquiring.
Anyway.. I hope it all blows over.. I'll try to talk to her later about this.

Re: Hmmm..

[arecii]

PS.. Her side of things.. maybe she's been used and abused in the past .. or bad relations w/people begging or scamming her .. so as she was so quick to judge you about this and this whole situation.. I really don't know.. and I can't justify her actions.. but maybe.. just maybe.

Re: Hmmm..

[mulletsquirrel]

Yeah, I don't know. You're probably right, but I can't really justify it either. I wish I could say that I should just be more careful, but I really don't see how I could have avoided this. I could be wrong, but it really didn't seem like I did anything to cause her to react that way.
I do feel bad about participating in an argument with a fellow guildsman, though. It's not what I'd want to do, especially since the rest of the guild (yourself included ^^) has been so nice to me.

Re: Hmmm..

[arecii]

Even if you weren't in the wrong.. maybe an apology to her might suffice the situation.. I dunno what more could be done here.... killing a person w/kindness may play a bigger role of maturity on your part... and just play it off.. since you really didn't do anything wrong...... now if she decides to be a bitch about it.. then Id have an issue about it.. and in which case she deserves no apology.. meh.. it's a tough situation for all :/ I never really had a guild dispute before so I reallydon't know how to handle this :(