Girls with anger problems and the subsequent conflicts...

[mulletsquirrel]

Last night I was playing Ragnarok Online like I usually do at night, just talking to some friends. Everything was going fine, and I think we were all having a pretty good time, when all of a sudden one of them (The one who has been starting fights with me from the beginning) flips out on me for no apparent reason. It was completely insane, and I

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Hmmm..

[arecii]

I can see both sides to this.. By maybe seeing you w/the hat that you luckily found she prolly assumed you were rich and just were using her for free items.. which isn't the case at all.. by having /rich type items/ people auto-assume you are loaded.. in which you did tell her you found the hat off a mini-boss.
From this log.. I don't see you begging for items or zeny. You simply asked her about some items Anne told you about her giving you... She assumed alot here.. calling you a sneaky thief.. which you aren't at all. You were simply inquiring.
Anyway.. I hope it all blows over.. I'll try to talk to her later about this.

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[arecii]

PS.. Her side of things.. maybe she's been used and abused in the past .. or bad relations w/people begging or scamming her .. so as she was so quick to judge you about this and this whole situation.. I really don't know.. and I can't justify her actions.. but maybe.. just maybe.

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[mulletsquirrel]

Yeah, I don't know. You're probably right, but I can't really justify it either. I wish I could say that I should just be more careful, but I really don't see how I could have avoided this. I could be wrong, but it really didn't seem like I did anything to cause her to react that way.
I do feel bad about participating in an argument with a fellow guildsman, though. It's not what I'd want to do, especially since the rest of the guild (yourself included ^^) has been so nice to me.

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[arecii]

Even if you weren't in the wrong.. maybe an apology to her might suffice the situation.. I dunno what more could be done here.... killing a person w/kindness may play a bigger role of maturity on your part... and just play it off.. since you really didn't do anything wrong...... now if she decides to be a bitch about it.. then Id have an issue about it.. and in which case she deserves no apology.. meh.. it's a tough situation for all :/ I never really had a guild dispute before so I reallydon't know how to handle this :(

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[nightlord]

everything you said is basically what i said offline. thanks for summing it up more eloquently. ;)

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[arecii]

:3 np!

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[mulletsquirrel]

Yeah, I know what you're saying. I'm not going to be a jerk to her about it or anything. It is a tough situation, but I'll try to talk to her again and hopefully get this all sorted out. =)

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[mulletsquirrel]

Thanks a lot, Jaz. I hope it blows over too...
I'm still baffled by the whole thing.

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[arecii]

Same here. ;_; I hope so.