i'm going to start charging royalties

[much_ado]

a friend i picked up a year ago (not only because she seemed really cool online *AND* in person, but because she's also in thick with other cool people i adore and love, so she came pre-vouched-for, so to speak) is currently working through some important life stuff of her own, and last night she made a filtered post that matthew called me to see,

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[persephoneplace]

Hugs beautiful.

The process hurts but each day will get better.

Process Improvements

[matthew_g]

Things *are* different now.

They are different than the last time, and they are incredibly different than even 3 months ago.

I value your work and our progress. *hug* You participated in my review perfectly. If things were different, then they'd be different, but for being there, then, you were perfect.

I love you.

[suburban_mom]

it took me five hours to get the fury under control and be able to unstep the emotional response from the baggage from the actual issues i had with *matthew*, and be able to bring the issues to him directly
thank you thank you thank you

I have the temper from hell and find myself struggling to keep the emotional 'knee jerk' reaction under some semblance of control. It's nice to see I'm not the only one who's still struggilng with this

Thank you, you give me hope

[persephoneplace]

oh, and for what it is worth, i always feel really ripped off when an otherwise good weekend gets lost to sorting out shite. Monday morning dawns and i feel like if the world were just i should get another couple of days :)

[pyrategrrl]

see, she had, all completely unprovoked and everything, used the terms "congruent" and "transparent", in the same sentence even.

Guilty as charged.(provided it is me you speak of! ) *G* After reading all the things you've written over this past year, especially during times of difficult processing in my and J's and my and T's relationships, has been invauluable.

I almost stoood up and waved both arms kermit-style when I realized what Miz Gross was describing. "Congruency!" *G*

Thank you. **hugs** Glad you're continuing with the making of the progress.

Conguency

[matthew_g]

I expect it's the same for much_ado but I'm still making progress because it's so much better than staying where I am :)