So in honor of towel day I'm going to complain everywhere. feel free to scroll past, there will be misspellings everywhere and this is a Bitter Post(tm)
So over the next semester is it possible for your friend and bf to meet? I mean once she actually gets to know him, she might actually like him. Unless her little comment about "you should break up" was more of a signal for "you should break with him and date me because now I have a crush on you." I dunno, that's kinda what it sounded like. I mean, why else would she project a "fear of competition" onto your bf?
BUT THIS REALLY SUCKS AND I AM SORRY YOU'RE IN A SUCKY SITUATION RN. *HUG*
She does want to meet him, and I want him to meet more of my college friends anyway, and the ones he has met think he's pretty rad (which I already knew :P). Either way I've been brainstorming with my sister who pretty much sums up the situation as this chick playing me for attention, with is awful and most likely true.
you don't need to worry about that because i don't really know her that well, lol.
I've only seen her be serious about ANYTHING once, and that was about Davis and his LOL LETS SEE IF I DIE thing last year. But yeah she flirts with almost anything that moves, so it's not like you're getting particularly ~special treatment~ in that regard, sorry to say. IMHO I think you're letting your emotions take advantage of your logical side--do you really think she'd provide for a healthy relationship, when she flirts so freely the way she does?
the whole flirting thing seems superficial and aggravates the shit out of me. the best way to treat it, I think, is to think to yourself, "she doesn't mean what she says."
Thats basically what Jay told me (her best friend, the mutual friend I mentioned. He has an irrational dislike of my bf as well). She's backed off of the flirty stuff since then, but I got really heated at AB Con.
FUNNY STORY I got to her before Jordan did, and when she took off for a bit and I was still looking all bitchface he asked what was up, and I told him what happened and he told me he's got a crush on her too. She thought that was funny.
Personally, now, I think she like's when people act like this around her, and if anything it just makes me feel weirder about her. Like, I know she's flirty and manipulative but I still want to hang out with her all the time. I dunno.
I think by now Jordan's figured it out too. I hope he has, anyway.
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BUT THIS REALLY SUCKS AND I AM SORRY YOU'RE IN A SUCKY SITUATION RN. *HUG*
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THANK YOU *HUGS*
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LOL NAMEDROPS but this is definitely relevant to the words i am about to speak, *sagenod
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Yes. Yes it is. Lay some of that sage wisdom on me and for the love of GOD do not tell her about this post D:
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I've only seen her be serious about ANYTHING once, and that was about Davis and his LOL LETS SEE IF I DIE thing last year. But yeah she flirts with almost anything that moves, so it's not like you're getting particularly ~special treatment~ in that regard, sorry to say. IMHO I think you're letting your emotions take advantage of your logical side--do you really think she'd provide for a healthy relationship, when she flirts so freely the way she does?
the whole flirting thing seems superficial and aggravates the shit out of me. the best way to treat it, I think, is to think to yourself, "she doesn't mean what she says."
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FUNNY STORY I got to her before Jordan did, and when she took off for a bit and I was still looking all bitchface he asked what was up, and I told him what happened and he told me he's got a crush on her too. She thought that was funny.
Personally, now, I think she like's when people act like this around her, and if anything it just makes me feel weirder about her. Like, I know she's flirty and manipulative but I still want to hang out with her all the time. I dunno.
I think by now Jordan's figured it out too. I hope he has, anyway.
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