I think you're beautiful, Noey. Inside and out and you should be proud of yourself. Even admitting to those issues is a big step - a step so many people don't take.
We all have moments of weakness and we've all got insecurities that are so ingrained into our psyches that we even forget they're insecurities. No one who loves you is going to love you any less because you have those faults; if anything, they should love you all the more because you shared those things with them. It's those weaknesses that make us whole and how we deal with them that make us people. Anyone who loves you less because you are "weak" is not worthy to be your friend. And don't feel that you are weak; you've resisted giving in to eating disorders and struggle to find acceptance for who you are in your heart - those are hardly the signs of a weak person, but of someone who is determined to find happiness and isn't settling. That is never a weakness.
I know this might not count much since I'm practically a stranger, but I just thought you should know, when I first saw your pictures I thought you really do have a fantastic smile which looks like the contagious sort and you are very pretty. :) I remember that, because I was almost surprised because it didn't connect to what I initially pictured you to be. You're so much prettier
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There are people who love you. And there are quite a few of us out here. Don't let the past or the future bog you down, okay? There's lots of us who love you just for who you are.
Dude, I totally feel you. There's always going to be a part of me that feels like the fat kid and I can't change that. I'm trying but I don't want my weight loss to become part or cause of a bigger problem, you know? Sometimes I feel completely unnatractive (and you, you have a beautiful face), not ugly but just kinda goofy looking and I always forget the way I look when I'm working. Sometimes I happen against a mirror and I'm a little surprised like, whoa there's my face and I can't get beyond that. But I try to assure myself that I'm still so good at many things and that people like me because I'm fairly nice but yeah, it can be hard to shake. Let's shake it off and remember it's not what we look like that matters but what we are capable of doing.
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We all have moments of weakness and we've all got insecurities that are so ingrained into our psyches that we even forget they're insecurities. No one who loves you is going to love you any less because you have those faults; if anything, they should love you all the more because you shared those things with them. It's those weaknesses that make us whole and how we deal with them that make us people. Anyone who loves you less because you are "weak" is not worthy to be your friend. And don't feel that you are weak; you've resisted giving in to eating disorders and struggle to find acceptance for who you are in your heart - those are hardly the signs of a weak person, but of someone who is determined to find happiness and isn't settling. That is never a weakness.
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There are people who love you. And there are quite a few of us out here. Don't let the past or the future bog you down, okay? There's lots of us who love you just for who you are.
*hugs again*
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