I can't keep doing this. I can't keep being told that my best is not good enough, that my feelings are irrational, that my expectations of others are too high. Can't I just feel how I feel
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first off, yes your expectations of others are too high. they are also too low of yourself.
no one's best is good enough. You have to make yourself realize this, and with this comes acceptance and comfort in one's self.
someone DIED. That itself warrants need for comforting, and time to recollect and reflect. You can't just jump from point a to point b, when point B obviously isn't that important in lieu of recent events. Next time, tell me the whole story, cause I had to find it for myself, while feeling like an ass.
You make your feelings about this "one person" too open. Conceal them, and the flack you get from displaying them will hide along with them.
Life is fucking in your face every damn day, hour, minute, every single second. You can't escape it, predict it, or plan for it. The most you can do is work towards dealing with immediate issues in a way additive to you and others. Your best efforts are good enough, the only issue is the things you put your efforts towards which determines people's outlook on what was done.
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they are also too low of yourself.
no one's best is good enough. You have to make yourself realize this, and with this comes acceptance and comfort in one's self.
someone DIED. That itself warrants need for comforting, and time to recollect and reflect. You can't just jump from point a to point b, when point B obviously isn't that important in lieu of recent events. Next time, tell me the whole story, cause I had to find it for myself, while feeling like an ass.
You make your feelings about this "one person" too open. Conceal them, and the flack you get from displaying them will hide along with them.
Life is fucking in your face every damn day, hour, minute, every single second. You can't escape it, predict it, or plan for it. The most you can do is work towards dealing with immediate issues in a way additive to you and others. Your best efforts are good enough, the only issue is the things you put your efforts towards which determines people's outlook on what was done.
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