Holy crap!

[midnightheir]

An actual post - with details. Date and time it folks, the journal is being used as it was intended!

So I've been sitting on this thing for nine months or so now and all I've done to date is answer memes and bitch about WMM - the best program Windows ever made. And if you believe that you'll believe ANYTHING! But -deep breath- here we go ...

I've

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[princessebee]

I've just made the decision to be single again and have all my independence back. Hooraye!

I say, even if you're a bit lonesome now it's better to wait for the right person... even if that person is only right for a few months.

Unless you just want to have flirty date fun. It can be found, and done.

[midnightheir]

Lonesome is a year or so ... this is more like six years of being single.

As for 'flirty' date fun - that is my MO, and I'll die the day my family ever realise that.

[half_elven]

I support singleness! Though it's more of a altrustic thing in my case. I tend to manipulate people well while in a relationship... and then completely turn off my feelings and rip out their still beating heart... and think it's fun... so yeah.

;)

[midnightheir]

That sounds like a slightly Machivellian thing and a power play. All of which are good - if someone puts themselves in that sort of a vulnerable position I believe they get everything they deserve. The unwritten rule that states 'when in love/a relationship' you go dumb is in and of itself STUPID.

More power to those who know how to get what they want from a relationship.

[silent_myriad]

Took me reading it twice before I realized a ukelele was probably not something common for you all.... ^_^ I think I heard four of them this morning on our charity walk.

Having recently made myself an ex-fiance ... then I've been invited to no less than three weddings this summer. It feels a little weird. My college friends are getting married, but I've just realized that it is not something I want. (Certainly not to the lying $#&^$%# ... him.) And perhaps not ever in my lifetime, and I don't see anything wrong with that.

[midnightheir]

Oh I have a funny picture of the serenade on those things!

As for getting married, don't want that, but my family are the sort that pre-program the whole have a family thing into you from the age of like four.

It's not going to be a disappointment if I don't get someone at some point, it's going to be a crushing failure that isn't going to be forgotten.

[silent_myriad]

Funny pic? Do we get to see now that you've mentioned it? ^_^

My grandmother vacations here with a couple of her friends. They (not my grandma - she knows better than to ask) wants to know when I'm making Grandma a Great-Grandma..... *sigh*
"Ask my brother", is my usual response.
I've never asked my parents about how they feel on grandkids. I'm not sure I want to ... since I'm not planning on it myself. :\

[zig_zag123]

I sometimes know that feeling of wishing I wasn't single. But then other times I'm so fricken happy to be single when the good times are over.

*Hugs* Hope you're feeling better.

[midnightheir]

-hugs back-

It's been a busy coupla weeks but here I am! The few times I've been in and out of relationships I can safely say that I feel so much happier and secure once single again.