Happiness. For some it is an elusive condition; for others, not so much. Why?
Could it be brain chemistry? Medical science seems to confirm the hypothesis that brain chemistry is a factor given that medications that alter it often result in an improved mood in depressed patients. However, researchers have found that
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When I was thinking about this post, trying to pull together as many as the threads about happiness that I have read, and you and I have discussed lately, I realized that I had probably been taught the skill of "recasting" from my father. As an INFJ, he often looked at issues from many, many sides, and if it pertained to me, enjoyed discussing these many sides in great detail.
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Raising "happy" children may not at all be about what best to teach them, rather to just live in the moment yourself with them and always open them up to new things!
Leading by example, rather that words.
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(Like your avatar. I need to make one for myself of my dad.)
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Be mindful of the future, but not at the expense of the moment. ~ Obi-wan Kenobi
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Suzanne
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The answer, simply put, is, "No."
Allow me to explain: How does your anxiety change the money problem? Does it help? Does it fix it? To be be fair does it make it worse? No? Worry and anxiety don't impact your financial situation at all? How very interesting! I suppose you can move past that on your path for happiness and focus instead those energies on more tangible outcomes.
My $.02
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Suzanne
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I think that is the crux of the matter ~ anxiety is great in a crisis. It may be the difference between life and death ~ whether it is with the patients who are in the EMTs hands or our cavemen ancestors trying to avoid becoming some big cat's lunch ~ but in a ongoing state of events, an issue that cannot be immediately dispatched, then it becomes a hindrance.
Perhaps the complexity of modern life tweaks the alarms in our caveman brain to no positive avail.
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