Assumptions

[michelle1963]

Most of us know that making assumptions often gets us in trouble. We try to be mindful about it and resist the error. The problem arises when a person makes an assumption and fails to realize he has done so. Why? Because unconscious assumptions become expectations. And expectations made on incorrect assumptions leads to disappointment

Comments

[suzanne1945]

Excellent break down on the different types of assumptions! In reading this, it occurred to me that a partner of not making erroneous assumptions is clear communication. As I discussed with you earlier, I was rather perplexed by the media pointing out that holidays with family gatherings were something to be endured instead of enjoyed. Evidently, I had made an assumption that families were more like mine in that we communicate well and respect each others differing view points. Hmmm