Look, I obviously don't know much about your history together and you're probably not looking for advice, but from what you've said... you have every right to be angry at this person, and demand some answers.
I imagine it's a relief at least to know he didn't off himself, but since the other option is utter abandonment I guess it's not a happy realization either. Talking to him is going to be really hard and drag up all kinds of old shit (obviously)... but I don't really see how you can avoid it. If it were me, I'd want answers. Especially if I spent the better part of a year wondering incessantly.
Whatever you've endured before, just keep reassuring yourself that some things have changed. That you've changed. That the situation's not the same as it was before.
I'm sorry he up and disappeared like that, without a damn word. I'm sorry he hurt you like that. I humbly volunteer to kick his ass, should such services be required.
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Look, I obviously don't know much about your history together and you're probably not looking for advice, but from what you've said... you have every right to be angry at this person, and demand some answers.
I imagine it's a relief at least to know he didn't off himself, but since the other option is utter abandonment I guess it's not a happy realization either. Talking to him is going to be really hard and drag up all kinds of old shit (obviously)... but I don't really see how you can avoid it. If it were me, I'd want answers. Especially if I spent the better part of a year wondering incessantly.
Whatever you've endured before, just keep reassuring yourself that some things have changed. That you've changed. That the situation's not the same as it was before.
I'm sorry he up and disappeared like that, without a damn word. I'm sorry he hurt you like that. I humbly volunteer to kick his ass, should such services be required.
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You've got good friends who are here for you and support you. Take comfort in that and how far you've come since then.
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