hrmm, I had a bad feeling this would happen, I knew you'd be ready for a relationship because of the way your old one was already burned out, my concern was Rogan, because he just got out of a bad one, and those take a while to recover from. I know. I just didnt know the guy enough to make that judgement about you two being together. I dont think he wouldnt want a relationship with you, I think it's just he cant handle being in one, and is prolly afraid of hurting you. It's usually that, among respectable men, at least. I can tell you from that standpoint as well. Give it a while, talk to him, tell him you understand if he isnt ready to go headfirst into a new situation. Let him clear his head. In the end, he'll be able to decide what he wants clearly. I tend to try to stay clear of people who just got out of relationships, because they usually want to start a new one for comfort (rebound factor) and then quickly break it off. Just give it time.
i know i'm just gonna cower away from him for at least a little while. i just have to shake off some of the excess emotions before i can approach him as a friend, again. sure, in a crowd, i'll be able to talk to him... but it'll be a while before we ever do the one-on-one thing again.
p.s. i hate having the overreactive emotions of a female. -Meg
I was worried that would happen myself, but at least he let you go early. It really is hard to tell what his true intentions were, there. I guess you'll never really be able to know until you guys reconcile or he ends up with someone else. That's the shitty thing about it. I wish you luck.
Personally I would rather take a break from relationships after just leaving one. Though I've never been someone who just had to be in a relationship. I wasn't looking when I found Nik.
On the whole 'no relationship now' and 'no relationship with you' debate, I've foud them synonomus. It depends on weather the person is a coward or not; if they will own up to what their feeling or worry about 'hurting' people
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Give it a while, talk to him, tell him you understand if he isnt ready to go headfirst into a new situation. Let him clear his head. In the end, he'll be able to decide what he wants clearly. I tend to try to stay clear of people who just got out of relationships, because they usually want to start a new one for comfort (rebound factor) and then quickly break it off. Just give it time.
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p.s. i hate having the overreactive emotions of a female.
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Personally I would rather take a break from relationships after just leaving one. Though I've never been someone who just had to be in a relationship. I wasn't looking when I found Nik.
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