I really like your realness, R. (lol, I'm so lazy I can't even type out "Random." Wait...I just did..) What you said about emotions and omens, well, it's pretty much the same way that I feel. People who think you can "control" emotion are simply people who try to ignore them or act like they don't matter, when obviously that does nothing but harm.
Also, please don't take anything Heather said in offense. She was simply stating her own personal experience and simply wanted to share it as advice. She made no assumptions about each of you not being good for eachother nor did she assume R (lol new nickname?) "didn't get it." She just wants to help.
Hmm. What I want to say here is "Fish or cut bait," dude. Far as I know you've made some decisions, and I think you should probably stick with them, and move on. For those of you who don't know me, kindly don't judge that statement. I've been in similar situations. Practically the same situations. And all I can say is that to keep dragging it out, to keep rehashing feelings doesn't solve the problem. It lets things fester. Make your choices in life, and stick with them.
If people in my life would do that, it would probably hurt worse than it does now. But it'd be over, instead of in limbo. Merely my 2 cents, not designed to convince or anger anyone. I care about you, and I just want you to be happy. :)
No waivers needed, hon. I know the intent of your contribution and I value your opinion on the matter.
I also love the phrase, "fish or cut bait". Awesome. Reminds me of other, less savory phrases used to compel another to take action or move out of the way. I am sure you've heard them. :P
As it is I am constantly going over my thoughts and feelings. It's what I do. But that doesn't mean I haven't taken some action on the matter.
Actually, I eventually stumbled across "fish or cut bait" while trying to find some less...unsavory way to put it. It's not the phrase that came immediately to mind. ;)
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Also, please don't take anything Heather said in offense. She was simply stating her own personal experience and simply wanted to share it as advice. She made no assumptions about each of you not being good for eachother nor did she assume R (lol new nickname?) "didn't get it." She just wants to help.
Why the crap am I suddenly speaking for her? lol
Goodluck with everything, man.
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Hmm. What I want to say here is "Fish or cut bait," dude. Far as I know you've made some decisions, and I think you should probably stick with them, and move on. For those of you who don't know me, kindly don't judge that statement. I've been in similar situations. Practically the same situations. And all I can say is that to keep dragging it out, to keep rehashing feelings doesn't solve the problem. It lets things fester. Make your choices in life, and stick with them.
If people in my life would do that, it would probably hurt worse than it does now. But it'd be over, instead of in limbo. Merely my 2 cents, not designed to convince or anger anyone. I care about you, and I just want you to be happy. :)
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I also love the phrase, "fish or cut bait". Awesome. Reminds me of other, less savory phrases used to compel another to take action or move out of the way. I am sure you've heard them. :P
As it is I am constantly going over my thoughts and feelings. It's what I do. But that doesn't mean I haven't taken some action on the matter.
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