It's just flirting, you idiot

[meeshinboston]

On a recent trip, I observed the difficulties of a guy (we'll call him Frank) who flirted too much

Comments

[rhondarubin]

There is a great way to let someone know that you, without doubt, are not in love with them. Sleep with them. Immediately afterward, look at him and say. "Thanks, now get out." Terse, but effective.

[meeshinboston]

This has nothing to do with love. It has everything to do with being able to be friendly without the other person immediately assuming you want to date him.

What do we have to do? End every conversation with "Oh, and I'm sooo not into you."?

[rhondarubin]

I'm merely trying to get you laid without strings. Nothing says "I'm sooooo not into you" like a quickie with someone who immediately kicks you out.