Carol D. Houliston, 1965-2017

Dec 21, 2017 22:42

Fly, my friend.


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lenine2 December 22 2017, 03:52:58 UTC
I believe I met Nilmandra through you. What a wonderful person. She was an inspiration in so many ways. I wish a had just a bit of the strength I saw in her.

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meckinock December 22 2017, 04:18:04 UTC
This sounds really corny but the only thing that comes to mind is something from The Big Chill: She was too good for this world.

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cairistiona7 December 22 2017, 14:07:46 UTC
I wish I had had the chance to know her better. Even so, I'll miss her presence in the fandom.

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meckinock December 23 2017, 14:26:35 UTC
I'm happy we still have SoA and I'll always be grateful to Nilmandra for that gift to the fandom.

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dot_o_choillmor December 23 2017, 09:27:50 UTC
I'm only just on LJ today and was glad to see you. I don't think I've got my head around the news yet but you were one of the people I was thinking about the last few days. I hope you're doing ok. We all had the best of times, didn't we, back in the day? Hanging around on LJ and SoA. I loved Nilm and will forever think of her as my friend but I know there are a few of you who were particularly close to her so I just wanted to let you know you're in my thoughts.

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meckinock December 23 2017, 14:13:38 UTC
They were the best of times. I've been thinking of you often as I re-read the old stories on SoA. If this is a sad occasion (it is for us even though Nilmandra wouldn't see it that way), at least it gives us the opportunity to share good memories with old friends.

Daw and Richard were able to attend the services yesterday since they're only about three hours drive from Nilmandra. I badly wanted to but I'm two hops away by air and with the short notice and the busiest travel day of the year I just couldn't get flight. Maybe daw will post about it.

I hope you are well and have a happy Christmas, Dot.

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dot_o_choillmor December 24 2017, 10:14:34 UTC
I'm glad daw was there. We all wish we could have been but two flights and just before Christmas would have been impossible for you.

We should have an online reunion soon.

I'm well. Heading to my parents' house shortly for the few days.

Take care and have a lovely Christmas.

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elliska December 23 2017, 20:50:12 UTC
Hi Dot. I hope it's ok to take advantage of this opportunity to say Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. Nilmandra loved Christmas so much. She's having the best of Christmases this year.

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elliska December 23 2017, 20:47:29 UTC
I was thinking about you too Meckinock. I'm glad you've posted and I'm sorry you didn't get a chance to go to the funeral. It would be impossible to fly at this time of year. think Nilmandra would be pleased that we are getting a chance to talk again though. :) I hope everything is going well for you.

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meckinock December 24 2017, 04:47:44 UTC
It's so good to see you, Elliska. I regret not being in touch with you and all the old friends from SoA. I do think Nilmandra would be happy to give us occasion to get in touch again. I hope you have a Merry Christmas. I hope we (meaning me, mainly) can be better at staying in touch.

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meckinock December 29 2017, 02:32:31 UTC
Nilmandra posted this on her 40th birthday in 2005:

Thank you to all who have sent me good wishes on my birthday today. My friends and family in real life have had great fun in proclaiming me officially Over The Hill, as this is the big 40. The age doesn't bother me, though, and I will proudly claim each birthday that comes along. I wouldn't go back in time, most certainly, and what lies ahead is the next adventure ( ... )

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lenine2 December 29 2017, 03:51:55 UTC
This is the amazing Nilmandra that I knew. It's the woman that made me so happy to see LJ updates, and made me admire her outlook, despite the war she fought with her physical decline. Don't know what else to say. Thank you for posting this.

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meckinock January 8 2018, 01:50:39 UTC
Nilmandra has been and continues to be an inspiration to me. I feel so lucky to have known her.

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