It's natural to worry about whether or not you're making, or have made, the right decisions for your child. In fact, it would be unnatural not to worry.
The one thing you don't have to worry about is being "bad people".
I know that whatever decision you guys make will be made for as many of the right reasons as possible, whether or not it turns out to be the "right" decision.
wow...this stuff is all way beyond me so i won't even pretend to offer any sort of advice...but i will say that the idea of you being "selfish" is insane, and any decision you make, no matter what it ends up being, will be the right one. Oh..and why, at 9 months pregnant, do you still look skinnier than me?!?!?!?!?!?!?! (well...except for the belly part, thank God!)
I honestly don't know what I would do in your position. I'm sorry you're having such a hard pregnancy. It's completely unfair. You deserve to enjoy this time (and I know you're probably enjoying some of it, but you know what I mean). The last thing you should be doing right now is worrying about what's to come
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Aww thanks guys...you're awesome. This is what I needed to hear. I will be discussing on thurs with the OBGYN..i'll post what the plan is then.
Karys..I have gained 30lbs...and it's mostly in my ass and thighs! I'm actually carrying "small" according to most observers. You will notice that you cannot see my lower half of my body in any of my prego pics. This was done for a reason! Hee hee
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The one thing you don't have to worry about is being "bad people".
I know that whatever decision you guys make will be made for as many of the right reasons as possible, whether or not it turns out to be the "right" decision.
Good luck!
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Oh..and why, at 9 months pregnant, do you still look skinnier than me?!?!?!?!?!?!?! (well...except for the belly part, thank God!)
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Karys..I have gained 30lbs...and it's mostly in my ass and thighs! I'm actually carrying "small" according to most observers. You will notice that you cannot see my lower half of my body in any of my prego pics. This was done for a reason! Hee hee
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