(Untitled)

[lvmybehrs]

So I have been going out with someone lately (About a month now). He is really impressing me with him just being himself. He has taken me to do some new things, and I am really enjoying his company. I stayed overnight on Saturday and we had an extensive conversation.  It was a very nice conversation until we began discussing mutual friends. Come to

Comments

[thesilia]

if i didn't know better, i'd say you were a lesbian. :P seriously, we ALL slept with someone our current flame has slept with, unless we're converting someone. it's just the way it is in a small pond.

unless you happen to know that your shared former paramour is a raging source of STDs or something, you should be fine.

good luck with this. i know these little mental hangups very rarely respond to logic, but logically, there's no reason to let a little hangup get in the way of some good clean fun that might turn into a good relationship.

[lvmybehrs]

Are you calling me a lesbian? LOL.

unless you happen to know that your shared former paramour is a raging source of STDs or something, you should be fine.

This actually makes sense to me. :)

Thanks for sharing love.

[book_of_daniel]

Everyone's got a past. It's the future that matters most.

[lvmybehrs]

And although this makes sense and i can be rational...I am still struggling.

I fear I may need a bitch slapping to bring some rationalization come my way.

[shirtlifterbear]

Well, since there are only 30 gay men in any given city (it's all done with mirrors! *grin*), the odds are always good that you've shared some men.

Well, maybe not spit-roasted between you, but you know what I mean.

I'd think of it as "he is desirable! I have proof!"

[lvmybehrs]

I'd think of it as "he is desirable! I have proof!"

Ha! I actually like this line of thinking. And now I know that I am desirable. This is the first time today that I have smiled!

Thank you for that. As your reward, you get the oral sex yet again.

[shirtlifterbear]

Hooray!

I win the oral sex!

MMMMM... that'll do nicely!

[djmadadam]

"...the chances of this happening is probably common practice."

LOL, I think you meant commonplace.

[lvmybehrs]

commonplace...yeah that too. :)

[zacki1978]

No sabotaging this lady! (Insert bitchslap here) Good now that is out of the way, enjoy it... don't get caught up in a mire of shit like that and realize you were missing the best part the whole time... Wake up babe! :) Best of luck!

[lvmybehrs]

(Insert bitchslap here)

You're such a man handler. I will try and heed your advice and just run with it.