I got this from Moby's journal entry ( Read more... )

( Flow chart on overview of debate over gay marraige )

Security 'bad news for sex drive' A woman's sex drive begins to plummet once she is in a secure relationship, according to research ( Read more... )

Many people in long-term, committed relationships, be it marriage or steady partnership -- no matter their age -- have ideas about sex in partnerships they may not even be aware of. Often we base our ideas of relationships and sexuality on what we see in the media or in movies, on what our parents relationship is like, or on what we imagine, in a ( Read more... )

Anonymous asks:
I know guys should ask for consent, but can you say some stuff about handling rejection? What about the times when she says no? This would be really helpful - because it's really hard not to take it personally - and that's probably the biggest reason guys don't ask, because they fear rejection.

CJ replies:
Consent is an active ( Read more... )