I completely identify with this. Lesbians are mystifying, particularly if you're femme and the one women's bar in town is full of butch chauvinists. I've learned to act like I'm not nervous and I don't care, but I am and I do.
Anytime hun. Or at least any time I'm not otherwise occupied. I should have internet access at home soon (I just have to find a USB card in some random box somewhere). I'll try to remember to email you my number. If I forget feel free to nag! Thanks for being super supportive through all this.
Ohmagod! Where did you go! I could swear you were on my friends list. I figured you just hadn't been posting. I missed so much! I'm going to have to figure out who this Gwen person is and stuff.
I'm totally interested in meeting said Gwen person. Apparently you're fond of her and that's (usually) a good sign, especially if you've been fond of eachother for any decent length of time and met in person.
There is a lesbian bar in town. And this town is crawling with lesbians. Most of them are kinda butch, but I'm sure you can find someone to your liking. But yeah. We should send you out to the lesbian bar. You're cute, you have big boobs, and you have the florist thing going. They'll be buying you drinks inside of five minutes.
Yea it's just working up the nerve to wander into said bar by myself. The concept of going to a bar alone is only slightly unnerving -- hell once upon a time it was what I expected me to be doing instead of getting married and all of that. But a bar full of girls -- girls who like girls -- the idea makes me all jittery.
Now in my experience that's typically a reason TO do said thing. I was planning on trying to do that Saturday night, but I was sick and slept all day and it just didn't happen. Maybe sometime this week or something. We'll see.
Exactly! Did you miss the part where I don't know if getting a date or not getting a date scares me more? I have a talent for setting up loose loose situations in my brain.
I'm actually not worried about weather or not the bar scene works for me. Right now I'm very much in the process of finding out WHAT I want and what I don't. I'm just worried about not being enough myself to know.
I know loads of lesbians and would be delighted to be your escort into a terrifying world if you like. The idea of walking into a bar to help find lesbian dates for a friend is just too damn funny. Usually I'm just dropping in to run errands. Let's get you OUT girlfriend!
Really? I'd love to meet a couple. Frankly at this point just someone to hang out with that is inclined that direction would do wonders. Sometimes I wonder if simply knowing that they're real people (in the non-intelectual sense, because in my mind I of course know this) would make this much easier.
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I completely identify with this. Lesbians are mystifying, particularly if you're femme and the one women's bar in town is full of butch chauvinists. I've learned to act like I'm not nervous and I don't care, but I am and I do.
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I'm totally interested in meeting said Gwen person. Apparently you're fond of her and that's (usually) a good sign, especially if you've been fond of eachother for any decent length of time and met in person.
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But yeah. We should send you out to the lesbian bar. You're cute, you have big boobs, and you have the florist thing going. They'll be buying you drinks inside of five minutes.
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Now in my experience that's typically a reason TO do said thing. I was planning on trying to do that Saturday night, but I was sick and slept all day and it just didn't happen. Maybe sometime this week or something. We'll see.
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I'm actually not worried about weather or not the bar scene works for me. Right now I'm very much in the process of finding out WHAT I want and what I don't. I'm just worried about not being enough myself to know.
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