Fandom and I seem to have conflicting feelings for each other. Obviously, I love it, otherwise I wouldn't be here (cause I'm on LJ so much right?). But I realized after spending last weekend and finals week reading fanfiction practically nonstop, that when I immerse myself in fandom, I enter a mindset that really cuts me off from any social, well,
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I think you should stop thinking about fandom as taking your life away, but having a second life. A secret life.
Hopefully something from that is helpful?
Oh, and sometimes you do need to to get away from real life. May that be for a day or a month.
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And it's the integrating the two lives I am struggling with, not the separating :\
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and for the past two years I haven't really read much fanfiction because I realized I would spend way too much time on my computer and not out there :/
I wish I knew how to balance more but I have an addictive personality and once I start reading I can't stop
at least I kind a know what you're going through
let me know if someone has a good idea!
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Also, I'm going to start afresh and see where that gets me. Hopefully a lack of stress to catch up completely on all of my flist will make me wore willing to go on LJ more often. Hmm. :)
Good to know someone is in the same boat though :3
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Thanks again though. Really :)
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I'd say try to put away time to delve into the world of fandom, like Saturday afternoon or something. That way, if it's designated time, you may not feel guilty about being away from your friends, and you can satisfy those lovely fanfic cravings. It's not unhealthy to want to spend some time just being by yourself with a bunch of words.
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