I assume your boyfriend did this to you. I'm sorry but I don't feel bad for you. You are the one who stays with him and takes it, even though you could do a hell of a lot better. Love hurts? Love scars? That isn't love. You are the stereotypical "victim" woman. You are the one who choses to settle for someone, even though he's not good enough for you. Abusive people don't change everyone knows that. I don't get you.
I'm not looking for apologies or sympathy. expect anyone to feel bad for me, I made the choice to put up with it. When we are children we grow into adults and all along the way we are exposed to the many triumphs and tortures in this life. Some of us are conditioned differently than others. Somehow the violence doesn't unsettle me as much as I thought it might. It makes me somewhat sad to admit but even with occasions like this - even at their very worst life is still better, with him, than trying to handle the rest of the struggles alone. Sucks to find comfort in someone who belittles you and gets black out drunk from time to time just to smack you around a little. There's always some price to pay and odds to weigh - and I'd still take this than face what's outside by myself.
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I'm sorry but I don't feel bad for you.
You are the one who stays with him and takes it, even though you could do a hell of a lot better.
Love hurts? Love scars? That isn't love.
You are the stereotypical "victim" woman.
You are the one who choses to settle for someone, even though he's not good enough for you.
Abusive people don't change everyone knows that.
I don't get you.
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When we are children we grow into adults and all along the way we are exposed to the many triumphs and tortures in this life. Some of us are conditioned differently than others. Somehow the violence doesn't unsettle me as much as I thought it might.
It makes me somewhat sad to admit but even with occasions like this - even at their very worst life is still better, with him, than trying to handle the rest of the struggles alone. Sucks to find comfort in someone who belittles you and gets black out drunk from time to time just to smack you around a little. There's always some price to pay and odds to weigh - and I'd still take this than face what's outside by myself.
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*hugs and such*
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My friend showed me the obituary. I never knew you had a sister named Toni. How old is she. Why you never mentioned her?
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