Thank goodness

[lost_decoy]

I did something stupid to upset Brian when I didn't even think twice doing it - nothing HUGE like cheating or anything of the sorts but I totally understand why he was upset with me. Basically I need to respect myself more

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[lost_decoy]

We are both nerds!

[ofthelily]

*hugs* well I am glad things worked out. There is nothing like a positive relationship to make your whole life run smoother!!

[lost_decoy]

Yes, life has been going SOOO smooth, I wouldn't want to deal with this possibility at all, nevermind this week!

[ghostfaceposta]

I don't think you should feel bad about what you did. I didn't view it as a lack of self-respect at ALL. Actually I thought it was the opposite and I was totally happy you felt awesome about yourself to do that.

From some people, yeah, it feels desperate. From you I knew it was the opposite... you were doing it because you felt great (and deservedly so.)

It's definitely something a couple should talk over before one goes ahead with it, so I can see why he was shocked but please please please please FUCK any notion of this being an issue of you needing to "respect yourself more."

I am glad you guys worked this out (I love the hell out of both of you) but I'm a little worried that it came at the cost of you thinking that you did something trashy or disrespectful to yourself.

By the way I tried to keep this comment vague, but if it's TMI, please delete it!

[lost_decoy]

I can kind of see it from both sides of the coin - while I am not where I was at years ago but when I was a wee little girl I was in this situation because of the lack of self respect/self worth scenerio. It wasn't because of it this time but it can DEFINATLY be viewed as such because I used to feel that way.

I should have definatly talked about it before hand, though I originally did not INTEND to even have it go in that direction - sort of happened as it went along and it all went from there. Everything else was OK because of that one...plus the fact he didn't even KNOW it was up for days and I never even told him - just saw it and was shocked and hardly slept that night. That's what I feel worse about - like I totally could have been like "hey there, lookies what I put up" and probably would have went over A LOT smoother and been rectified from there. Dumb of me on that part.

I was so relieved that he kept me around, I seriously didn't know what to do as Stephy probably told you I was like a blubbering retard - goddamn it!

[makonurikoryoko]

Glad you resolved the problem that came up. You guys are so cute together!

[lost_decoy]

<333

NOT as cute as Keith and yourself!