You don't need meds <3 the hardest part is just admitting to yourself that there's something wrong and I'm so proud of you for finally accepting it.
You're an amazing designer. That's why you got offered the job. That's why you have this outstanding average and everything you do is so good. I wish I could make you happy with your work, but you've always been upset with yourself creatively and I hope you bring this up with your therapist.
As for the job - I don't think it'll be hard. Like once a week thing. You can always try it for a bit and if you hate it quit. You're not making a life commitment, okay?
I think she'll react okay, as long as you tell her before you start dating. She seems like the type of girl that wouldn't mind at all, also she's bisexual so that makes it way easier. You're never leading her on if she calls it off for you being trans. That's her loss.
I love you very much and you're my soulmate <3. I'm glad you're working towards getting better. Call me later today when you're up to talking.
It may be easier to tell her before you meet her because 1 - meeting someone in person is a huge deal in itself.. you won't know how to gauge her reactions yet and if she say, makes a face because she's shocked - but still okay with it... it might throw off the whole balance for you, and 2 - it's unfortunately easier for YOU to let her do things on her own terms.... Long in the short of it, if she needs time to think about anything, etc... it's better to let her know beforehand instead of waiting until april
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It's a really good thing and a show of strong personality that you can admit to yourself that there is a problem you need to adjust. You're still the same Gabe. You're still awesome
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WAIT PEOPLE USE NEXOPIA?? ahaha well URGH hope im not too late here to add anything meaningful but setting goals and having ambitions and really getting out and meeting people was how I put myself out of my depressive rut many years ago. \
Take the job if you want it, leave it when you dislike it or find something better.
Keep her friendzoned I guess, at least until you see her in person then at that point you have direct control of the situation - I feel it's something that should be said in person. At least in my mind. I have no idea, she seems pretty open and if shes a great person, she'll look beyond that and see you for who you really are.
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and I'm so proud of you for finally accepting it.
You're an amazing designer. That's why you got offered the job. That's why you have this outstanding average and everything you do is so good. I wish I could make you happy with your work, but you've always been upset with yourself creatively and I hope you bring this up with your therapist.
As for the job - I don't think it'll be hard. Like once a week thing. You can always try it for a bit and if you hate it quit. You're not making a life commitment, okay?
I think she'll react okay, as long as you tell her before you start dating. She seems like the type of girl that wouldn't mind at all, also she's bisexual so that makes it way easier. You're never leading her on if she calls it off for you being trans. That's her loss.
I love you very much and you're my soulmate <3. I'm glad you're working towards getting better. Call me later today when you're up to talking.
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PEOPLE USE NEXOPIA??
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well URGH hope im not too late here to add anything meaningful but setting goals and having ambitions and really getting out and meeting people was how I put myself out of my depressive rut many years ago. \
Take the job if you want it, leave it when you dislike it or find something better.
Keep her friendzoned I guess, at least until you see her in person then at that point you have direct control of the situation - I feel it's something that should be said in person. At least in my mind. I have no idea, she seems pretty open and if shes a great person, she'll look beyond that and see you for who you really are.
YOU ARE A TOTAL BRO
GOOD RUCK
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