*sigh*

[littlekitty78]

I actually had a mental breakdown a couple of times at work. Stuff is so overwhelmingly hard right now. Hubby lost his job and just got another one. I couldn't support both of us on one salary- so I rented out my other place and moved in with his friends. The place is bigger- but I'm so fucking stressed. I have to lock myself in the room to get

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[vicar]

Aw I'm sorry. At least he was working (I whined because you were supporting him) and tries to listen. I dunno...still sounds like you might carry more weight. Not that everything has to be equal, but you've done really well for yourself sticking with that job and buying a place - not sure what his contribution is.

A shrink is good for perspective.

[littlekitty78]

yes- I still supporting him for the majority. Its annoying but he really has no contribution to the effort. Now since he's got a job -he is paying for utilities. So things are moving very slowly. Its hard being with a guy that's so intelligent (knowledege- wise, but not very responsible as far as knowing what it takes to survive). I yell at him constantly about what it takes, but he doesn't agree now. I'm hoping that something will sink in later.

[vicar]

Doesn't sound good. Sorry, don't know the guy, but I do know it takes too. Mooching...ick.

[littlekitty78]

Patience... in and being straight foward with a positve thinking is what I'm focused on now. Thinking positive about life and accomplishments :)