I dont think I have any female friends I never thought about that way. They would have to be, like, 11 or something.
I dont mean I lust after all my female friends or anything, I dont, but I tend to get attracted to my female friends because I like them, and liking them is the biggest turn on for me, not physical appearance, unless they dont bathe or something. Given attracted does not mean pursuing, this is not generally a big deal.
If I am single, unattached, and such, probobly I'd be interested in having sex. If I could. I mean, I would not lie about my intentions or anything, even if it would up my chances of scoring, but if we were unattached sex is a lot of fun. I like having sex with people I like.
>Now let us assume, that for some odd reason (prolly your injury) you pass out. When you come to you're naked in bed, and this female friend is laying beside you also naked and sleeping.<
I am curious as to why you used injured in the scenario and not “inebriated”. I am guessing you’re putting the man in a position in which it is completely not his fault. This unfortunately….is pure fantasy. Men never ever “accidentally” get intimate with a woman. The probability of that happening is the same as driving along the highway at a high speed and suddenly going blind.
>Now, you get a GOOD eye full, and seeing her in the nude, you notice that she has a NICE figure... and wonder why you've never noticed before...<
Again, this is impossible. Guys see lithe female figures in the patterns of the linoleum floor (well I do at any rate). A woman could be wearing a parka underneath an astronaut suit and I will still find parts of her body appealing.
>Do you think you'd have erotic dreams? what would you do in this situation?Would I have erotic
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Ok.. here's the situation.. This man (Jander) has basically been raised with Juniper.. the reason he didn't see her as an option was (i thought it made sense) because she's almost like a sister to him... He was injured during an attack on the base, and given drugs so that he would sleep and heal faster... Miawa is the woman he's interested in.. and she is no way interested in him, and has made that fact quite plain...
Jander had a few strange dreams as he slept. He was running endless hallways, chasing and being chased, never knowing exactly why. As he ran, he could hear things happening down other hallways. Sometimes the sounds were pleasant, like Juniper’s laughter, other times they were frightening like the sounds that the shells made impacting on the ground outside the compound. As he ran, the hallways seemed to be getting darker; the sounds seemed to be getting more horrible. He tried to turn down a different hallway but when he turned the whole world seemed to shift so that he stayed running the original direction. Just as things began to become intolerable he felt a hand touching his shoulder. Jander jolted awake and looked behind him. Juniper was lying behind him and looking at him with extreme concern painting her face. He rolled over in bed and saw that she was sharing his bed. His face flushed and he looked at his pillow
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If they had enough of the "sister" vibe going on I guess I could see it. I don't have a sister. I cant imagine getting along with a girl well most of my life and not spending a good chunk of my teenage years secretly wanting to sleep with her. I'd probobobly be more comfy giving up my virginity to such a person then someone I had to "impress". But if I had a sister I would probobly feel differently, even though I can but boggle at it now. Or maybe I wouldnt. As I say, for me, liking the person alot is the biggest turn on, and I'd much rather sleep with a friend with similar interest whom I like, respect, and have emotional investment in then J random hottie
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I'm gonna assume that you have a wonderful story going and this is the point where you're not sure, not being a guy, exactly how the "average" male will react. I will ask that jedishadowolf get to see the final result as she loves fic.
As for the actual question, having been involved in part of that situation before (Shut UP baronsamedi I do NOT have 70's fuzz guitar following me), I can say that arousal is a definite (and I didn't even see anything). The erotic dreams would depend on lots of things, but given my issues, there would be thoughts...if the friendship was a good/strong one, then there would not be at least immediate pursuit...for fear of losing the friendship. If during the inner turmoil of those conflicting emotions, the lady in question were to again show signs of interest, then yeah, gentle pursuing would start and see where it could go.
Yes, that's what it basically is.. the whole thing that's in the first person w/o the quotes is the thoughts..
The reason (in my mind) that he's not doing anything (other than having not really thought of her that way before) is because they're both leaders of a "political" group called the Alliance.. and they're the only group standing against the Soverign Corps...
If they were involved, he thinks, that the stress of losing one of them would probably destory the one still living.
It starts and ends with attraction, in my opinion. I have a hard time wrapping my head around this scenario because I don't think I could suddenly realize that a girl has a great body, having never noticed it before. We're all very visual creatures. Let's say I was aware she had a nice body but was never attracted to her before. It's hard to not respond physically to a naked girl in your bed! If everything is on the up and up, and she clearly wants something to happen, being in bed naked (extremely extenuating circumstances ignored), I don't think I'd turn away embarrassed. Right here, as I said before, it all comes down to attraction. I either ask what she's doing and get out of the situation if I'm not interested, or I move in for the kill. ;)
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I dont mean I lust after all my female friends or anything, I dont, but I tend to get attracted to my female friends because I like them, and liking them is the biggest turn on for me, not physical appearance, unless they dont bathe or something. Given attracted does not mean pursuing, this is not generally a big deal.
If I am single, unattached, and such, probobly I'd be interested in having sex. If I could. I mean, I would not lie about my intentions or anything, even if it would up my chances of scoring, but if we were unattached sex is a lot of fun. I like having sex with people I like.
As for dreams, maybe, but probobly not.
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I am curious as to why you used injured in the scenario and not “inebriated”. I am guessing you’re putting the man in a position in which it is completely not his fault. This unfortunately….is pure fantasy. Men never ever “accidentally” get intimate with a woman. The probability of that happening is the same as driving along the highway at a high speed and suddenly going blind.
>Now, you get a GOOD eye full, and seeing her in the nude, you notice that she has a NICE figure... and wonder why you've never noticed before...<
Again, this is impossible. Guys see lithe female figures in the patterns of the linoleum floor (well I do at any rate). A woman could be wearing a parka underneath an astronaut suit and I will still find parts of her body appealing.
>Do you think you'd have erotic dreams? what would you do in this situation?Would I have erotic ( ... )
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He was injured during an attack on the base, and given drugs so that he would sleep and heal faster...
Miawa is the woman he's interested in.. and she is no way interested in him, and has made that fact quite plain...
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As for the actual question, having been involved in part of that situation before (Shut UP baronsamedi I do NOT have 70's fuzz guitar following me), I can say that arousal is a definite (and I didn't even see anything). The erotic dreams would depend on lots of things, but given my issues, there would be thoughts...if the friendship was a good/strong one, then there would not be at least immediate pursuit...for fear of losing the friendship. If during the inner turmoil of those conflicting emotions, the lady in question were to again show signs of interest, then yeah, gentle pursuing would start and see where it could go.
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The reason (in my mind) that he's not doing anything (other than having not really thought of her that way before) is because they're both leaders of a "political" group called the Alliance.. and they're the only group standing against the Soverign Corps...
If they were involved, he thinks, that the stress of losing one of them would probably destory the one still living.
Uh, yeah.
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Let's say I was aware she had a nice body but was never attracted to her before. It's hard to not respond physically to a naked girl in your bed!
If everything is on the up and up, and she clearly wants something to happen, being in bed naked (extremely extenuating circumstances ignored), I don't think I'd turn away embarrassed. Right here, as I said before, it all comes down to attraction. I either ask what she's doing and get out of the situation if I'm not interested, or I move in for the kill. ;)
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