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[lilianna76]

I need to ask this. umm been surfing the net and was reading the posts at kickette and also checked out football_wifenow here's the question. why do we feel so OMG he cheated on her bad bad bad when it comes to footballers being caught with their hands in teh cookie jar??? I mean these guys are paid ridiculous sums of money for what they do and am pretty sure

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[niloo88]

I think you would care if it was someone that you liked, or in a team that you supported. For example, why would you care if it was "Canna or Zee or Ale", but not ppl in the EPL?

And it sucks for the WAGs, b/c not only is their husband/BF away a lot, he also goes to these parties!

I don't think it's all right for the players to cheat, even if they're famous and have lots of opportunities.

[lilianna76]

well for me most of the WAGs in the EPL seem IDK like they're only in it for the fame and money. seriously. whereas Canna and his wife have been together since they were teenagers and you don't see her parading herself around for attention, or Zee's, ALe's heck even Massi's wife. which is what most of the EPL WAGs do. I mean they even had a reality tv show. I mean I understand Elena and Ilary they were models and or whatever before hooking up with the guy btu the ones in the EPL use these guys to gain popularity so they could become models, actresses and whatever. I mean they are really just using them to get easy money and their pictures in the papers. and for us to freak out over the guy cheating well they knew what they were going for and they got it. yes the guys shouldn't cheat am not condoning that but really I don't feel sorry for someone who goes into a relationship for monetary gain. cause then you get what you asked for

[niloo88]

Yeah, I guess if they parade around and use the husband's popularity to gain popularity themselves, that's not good.

Yeah LOL like you said, it's a business, and sometimes you win and sometimes you lose

[lilianna76]

right? I mean if they really did love the guy it would be the case of babe you step one foot in teh wrong direction and it's buh-bye. but instead they cry and make it sem they are soo distraught by it then hubs/BF buys them a nice diamond and all is forgiven. WHAT!? sorry, I don't think so. if guy cheats he gets kicked to the curb I don't give a damn how much money he makes his ass is out of there. and then they want you to believe that they really love each other and all that. really. well if you did his ass wouldn't be out there cheating. but if someone sees the relationship as a business then it's not really being unfaithful is it.

LOL Yup.

[posh_doc]

Ok, Even If I don't believe totally in faithfulness, once you are engaged with someone else there're no excuses for cheating. Otherwise why did you engage yourself in the first place?
Footballers life is quite an interesting phenomena, but I guess their behaivor go hand to hand with traditons and how they manage their fame and drives.

Do you believe in that certain cliche about Footballers and Models, being meant to be?

[lilianna76]

I am not condoning their actions but I gotta say that most of the WAGs in the EPL seem to be only in it for the fame and money really. so I don't see it as being as a shocking revelation when the Hubs/BF cheats. I mean it seems more like a business arrangement more then anything.

i.e they are seen together as a couple and she gets photographed after that everywhere she goes and gets modeling contracts, tv shows start calling, etc. why? because she's supposedly with that guy. well that to me seems more like advance my career babe rather than I love you.

no. I think there are plenty of athletes out there that don't follow that idea. I think there are many who also don't cheat and are happy. but the ones who get the most mention are usually the ones who are hungry for the spotlight and then they'll tell you that they don't want the attention *rolls eyes* really? I mean just look at the ones who are constantly in teh spotlight for non footballing reasons and you'll see the Wife/GF really is only there to promote her own name.

[posh_doc]

It's all about a conflict of interests! And of course the ones "spotlighted" the most are those who aren't behave in a proper way, you know, that simply is more rentable for the media.

[lilianna76]

very true. and that's why I don't get shocked or feel bad for them cause they want to be there. they put themselves in the spotlight. so when every little dirty secret comes out oh well then shame on you and moving on now. casue reality I lose nor gain anything from what these people do in their spare time.