That's certainly one of the vocalizations I am terribly fond of.
(I also can't help but notice that this studied het women's vocalizations only. Leaving out the heteronormativity for a moment, I would like to point out it is not unknown for males to vocalize. In fact, I can say without reservation that I have anecdata to that effect.)
it's really fucking creepy as a straight girl who fucks guys to be fucking some dude who is like DEAD SILENT. i dated this one kid for a while a few years back where really the only way i knew he was close to orgasm was his torso and especially lower back went sweaty.
and it's really fucking discouraging as well to get no discernible feedback no matter what is going on: a finger nail lightly down the back, full on jugular bite, thudding headboard = nothing. i mean, i'm a big Do Me queen and its awesome to not HAVE to do anything when you're feeling lazy, but when no matter what you do it seems like it doesn't matter to them, you start to think that your presence isn't exactly required. and i'm down with taking turns being each others masturbatory aide, but when the entire sexual congress is basically me as someone's flesh light cause all they seem to enjoy is a disembodied vagina... meh, boring.
it's really fucking creepy as a straight girl who fucks guys to be fucking some dude who is like DEAD SILENT. i dated this one kid for a while a few years back where really the only way i knew he was close to orgasm was his torso and especially lower back went sweaty.
I have heard similar sentiments from various people.
and it's really fucking discouraging as well to get no discernible feedback no matter what is going on
Hell's yes. Silent and non-responsive is not something I think is cool. I should specify the non-responsive part there, as verbal isn't the only way to respond.
Also, if you are non-responsive, I am going to stop, because you obviously don't really want to be there. (And I really don't think I'm ever going to be talked out of this position again.)
but when no matter what you do it seems like it doesn't matter to them, you start to think that your presence isn't exactly required.
Indeed.
and i'm down with taking turns being each others masturbatory aideThe important part here for me is the "taking turns" part
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For fun, I downloaded the article. Send your e-mail addy to me at aaron.price@tufts.edu and I'll email you a copy. This goes to all your friends reading this reply too.:)
actually, the joke I heard way back when was. The four ways of having sex The positive way : oh yes oh yes oh yes! The negative way : oh no oh no oh no! The religious way: Oh my god! oh my god! oh my god! The fake way : oh [insert name of the person]! oh [insert name of the person]!
Jokes aside, yeah, the only thing worse than a dude ( or dudette, but it never happened with dudette wif me ) that doesn't respond to anything and is dead quiet is the dude who keeps on asking if it's ok.
Is this ok? DId I hurt you? Is this ok? Did I hurt you?
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That's certainly one of the vocalizations I am terribly fond of.
(I also can't help but notice that this studied het women's vocalizations only. Leaving out the heteronormativity for a moment, I would like to point out it is not unknown for males to vocalize. In fact, I can say without reservation that I have anecdata to that effect.)
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and it's really fucking discouraging as well to get no discernible feedback no matter what is going on: a finger nail lightly down the back, full on jugular bite, thudding headboard = nothing. i mean, i'm a big Do Me queen and its awesome to not HAVE to do anything when you're feeling lazy, but when no matter what you do it seems like it doesn't matter to them, you start to think that your presence isn't exactly required. and i'm down with taking turns being each others masturbatory aide, but when the entire sexual congress is basically me as someone's flesh light cause all they seem to enjoy is a disembodied vagina... meh, boring.
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I have heard similar sentiments from various people.
and it's really fucking discouraging as well to get no discernible feedback no matter what is going on
Hell's yes. Silent and non-responsive is not something I think is cool. I should specify the non-responsive part there, as verbal isn't the only way to respond.
Also, if you are non-responsive, I am going to stop, because you obviously don't really want to be there. (And I really don't think I'm ever going to be talked out of this position again.)
but when no matter what you do it seems like it doesn't matter to them, you start to think that your presence isn't exactly required.
Indeed.
and i'm down with taking turns being each others masturbatory aideThe important part here for me is the "taking turns" part ( ... )
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The four ways of having sex
The positive way : oh yes oh yes oh yes!
The negative way : oh no oh no oh no!
The religious way: Oh my god! oh my god! oh my god!
The fake way : oh [insert name of the person]! oh [insert name of the person]!
Jokes aside, yeah, the only thing worse than a dude ( or dudette, but it never happened with dudette wif me ) that doesn't respond to anything and is dead quiet is the dude who keeps on asking if it's ok.
Is this ok? DId I hurt you? Is this ok? Did I hurt you?
MEH!
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I'm going to assume this asking is despite you (at least to your way of thinking) making it abundantly clear things are going well?
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