You left him for a reason, right? Just focus on that.
And you've been together with this guy for awhile right? It's normal to miss that, and want that sense of familiarity back. Just give yourself time, bb.
dont even know what i want anymore. yeah for 4.5 years.. and this feeling really sucks. before i left, i practically neglected him but now, i don't know, i feel like i let it go to waste.
yeah it'll suck, but you'll move on and things WILL get better with time. Trust me on this one, bb. I mean this is still really recent, you just need to take it easy and give yourself time. You will find someone else you want to spend the rest of your life with. It's good that you left him when you did. *huggles* Things will be okay.
What you are feeling now is most likely a case of "when you had him, he was just there. But now that he's gone I miss him". You want that familiar safety back. We all crave that. But if familiarity is the only reason you are holding on... that's not healthy, bb. This is for the best *hugs*
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And you've been together with this guy for awhile right? It's normal to miss that, and want that sense of familiarity back. Just give yourself time, bb.
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CAAAAIT :(
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What you are feeling now is most likely a case of "when you had him, he was just there. But now that he's gone I miss him". You want that familiar safety back. We all crave that. But if familiarity is the only reason you are holding on... that's not healthy, bb. This is for the best *hugs*
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finding someone to spend the rest of your life with is the least i want to do right now. i feel so commitment phobic already. baaaah
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