Yep, I'm back, and so are my rambling posts :)

Jan 07, 2007 21:43

So, I've been thinking about how I've changed since me and Adam ended. Things progressing with Gray have triggered these thoughts ( Read more... )

adam, divorce, gray, relationships, friends

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lightning_geek January 8 2007, 12:14:20 UTC
It is only a fool who tries to stay the same. Sounding corny but life is indeed a journey and we learn from each mistake or experience and change our behaviour and outlook (sometimes not on a concious level) acordingly.

Change is enevitable and you can't stop it, if you try you only change in a different way. I am always looking at ways in which I am changing and I try to find other things where gaps in my experience or knowledge are to help me evolve in the way I want.

However you can't actually control this (many have tried and dismally failed). Just be safe in knowing things happen for a reason, I firmly beleive in that, and it took me at least until my mid to late 20s to realise that, or at least beleive it.

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kalya_2nd January 8 2007, 15:03:12 UTC
{agrees with lightning_geek}

Thats pretty much my philosophy on life. Its why I'm not wrangling myself over certain emotional issues of which we have spoken - and i'm getting on with life instead. is very helpful :)

I think you've changed in the time I've known you. Its just something that happens - growth occurs through change - and I feel you've grown.

*Hugs*

Mal

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