Comments | kschap: Something that bugs me...

kschap

Something that bugs me...

Dec 20, 2007 01:23

...is when people in adult communities here on LJ make whole new journals for their sexual side. Especially when the sexual things they're talking about aren't even anything that racy. I mean, I guess I can understand wanting some anonymity, and I know that in some cases that's necessary if you absolutely need to be a web exhibitionist. (Hey, I ( Read more... )

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kschap December 21 2007, 10:20:51 UTC

I love "Bachelorette" but haven't heard the other two. I'll have to check them out. :)

ammre December 20 2007, 14:42:24 UTC

I LOVE shortbus. I'm totally the sex therapist. I talk about sex and I help my friend's sex problems all the time, but my own sex life BLOWWWSSSS. but anyway ( ... )

kschap December 21 2007, 10:27:20 UTC

Yeah, that does make a lot of sense to me. I guess I just feel like sex, while it can and should be a private thing in some instances, doesn't need to be something viewed as so "naughty" that we have to keep it this secret part of ourselves all the time that only a few people ever get to see.

I think it's kind of a psychological thing that I'm going through personally too. I have major intimacy issues I'm trying to work through. I've not yet really done anything sexual with someone I was also emotionally close with; it always seems to be one or the other. Like, in my mind, I'm convinced that the person who will go grocery shopping with me or sit with me and cry over Finding Nemo would not be the person I can be a wanton slut with also. lol. I *want* someone I can do both of those things with, I want that intimacy, I guess I'm just oddly convinced that it's impossible.

My opinion on that is open to change, though, thankfully. :)

ammre December 21 2007, 14:22:42 UTC

I'm kind of in the same place too. I have hookups and i have really good friends, but not that happy intimacy of being in a relationship where they are a friend and a lover too. I watch my best friend who's in a relationship that i could only dream of, but then I see her cry because of insecurities, so i mean the grass isn't always greener, but really i just want to run around and visit other lawns.

I wish sex wasn't rated stronger then violence. You don't have to be 18 plus to watch some kid getting the crap kicked out of them, but to see a pair of tits, OH NOOOO! you must be 18! Clearly the problems of the world are because of sex and not violence/power.

tartcherry December 20 2007, 15:44:55 UTC

I had to join the community!! Too funny. Plus, I have been in the same boat with the bleeding in the tub. lol. gross but fascinating that we can do that.

kschap December 21 2007, 10:28:15 UTC

Yeah. I kind of love it. Just wasn't so into the idea of bathing in it, when my goal was to get clean! lol

the3rdfiglet December 20 2007, 23:43:08 UTC

I've been meaning to order something from BPAL! I'm glad you seem satisfied with your scents.

kschap December 21 2007, 10:30:34 UTC

Oh man, do it! I love BPAL. My boyfriend got me into them. Just start with a small order of "imp's ears" (their little sample vials) of things that have "notes" you think you might like. They send you free samples, too, based on how much money you spend, so you can get introduced to new stuff that way. I've smelled some yucky things, and some that I'm kind of neutral about, but there are some rare gems! :)

Two of my favorites that aren't limited edition or otherwise "special": Bastet and Night-Gaunt.

verviana December 22 2007, 04:30:58 UTC

Dude... I guess I'm not exactly jealous, but how come my vagina never does cool stuff like that?

I really like The Freshmen too and I haven't heard it in a long time. Now I want to...