...is when people in adult communities here on LJ make whole new journals for their sexual side. Especially when the sexual things they're talking about aren't even anything that racy. I mean, I guess I can understand wanting some anonymity, and I know that in some cases that's necessary if you absolutely need to be a web exhibitionist. (Hey, I guess it is possible to need that. Haha.) And relatedly, it also really bugs me when people advertise these XXX journals as somehow "better" than their normal ones. Like, what the fuck? Don't debase your life and thoughts like that. Sex is great, I'm a big fan of it personally; but there are other great things out there, too. And a continual focus on sex ONLY over an extended period is likely to majorly turn me off.
Then, though, there are those times when I want to be completely sexually, uh... "loose," I guess is the most apt word here? Haha. Like, if you've seen Shortbus... like that. Big orgies all over the place.
Whatever. Maybe you know what I'm talking about. It's their prerogative, it just drives me slightly nuts. :)
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Tomorrow (Thursday) I'm going shopping with Alicia for Christmas presents. I think she's done with her shopping, but I haven't even started yet. The only person I've succeeded in purchasing gifts for over the past month-ish is myself. Hah. Isn't that always the way? :) At least this year I'll have my car. Last year I was taking the bus to Great Northern Mall on Christmas Eve, to begin AND end my shopping. Teehee. :)
SPEAKING OF THINGS I BOUGHT FOR MYSELF, OH MAN, I got my
Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab order today, finally! Full bottles of Green Phoenix ("Green, for growth, expansion, prosperity, and stability. Sage, white mint, grey amber, papaya pulp, crushed grass, cucumber, green musk, green tea, and lime rind.") and Tristran from the Neil Gaiman Stardust scents ("Dust on your trousers, mud on your boots, and stars in your eyes: redwood, tonka bean, white sandalwood, lemon peel, patchouli, rosewood, coriander, and crushed mint."). Both smell delicious. I also got five "frimps"--a couple of them smell really nice in the vial, but the other three I'm kind of "eh" about. We'll see how they end up on my skin.
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I'm proud of my vagina and like talking about menstruation, so check out
this messy period story I just posted in
tmi_chix. You know, if you want. ;) I'll warn you, though: it's a fairly graphic description of menstrual blood, so if that bothers you, well, don't click, silly.
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Also, whoa, dude. Are there any songs that just grab you from the beginning notes, and once they start you just have to hear the whole thing? That totally happens to me everytime "The Freshmen" by The Verve Pipe goes by on my shuffled Winamp playlist. I'm in a good mood and the song makes me pretty... reflective and melancholy, I guess, so I didn't want to hear it right now. But I skipped ahead a few songs and was like, wait, I really want to hear that Freshmen song now. Heh. *shrug* I'm a music nerd. :)