do you really mean that? saying that I have any kind of comparison to kristin is a huge compliment to me. I was floored by reading that, it brings me more happiness than you know. thank you.
all I can really say about all the other points you mentioned is that I feel the same way. my mind is bleary right now, trying not to be sad, but feeling like maybe I should be. I need a hug.
Don't overburden your self with funerals - so many in a short time is hard. It is not selfish of you, nor does it mean you are less sad to see him go. Commemorate him in your own way - that's all that matters.
And sometimes, a good cry is precisely what you need.
honestly jesse, I just don't think I can do it. I'll send a check to any church or organization that his family is requesting, and I will pen a card and letter to his wife, but thinking of another funeral for another aneurysm victim makes me mentally come to my knees. I feel selfish, and mortal, for feeling that way, but I just don't think I can do it.
i'm so sorry to hear about bern. it's just so cruel that a brain aneurysm has taken another person you cared about- maybe it's a calling, maybe there will be some way that you can help one day.
don't feel bad if you aren't up to going to the funeral. i'm sure bern and his family would understand.
and i'm glad i could be there for you at the party- if you ever want to talk about kristin or anything else, i'm here.
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all I can really say about all the other points you mentioned is that I feel the same way. my mind is bleary right now, trying not to be sad, but feeling like maybe I should be. I need a hug.
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And sometimes, a good cry is precisely what you need.
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don't feel bad if you aren't up to going to the funeral. i'm sure bern and his family would understand.
and i'm glad i could be there for you at the party- if you ever want to talk about kristin or anything else, i'm here.
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