Mean Girls

[killmeneko]

EDIT: Since this post is currently being linked to a shitty Sailor Moon group with poor leadership on Facebook, and the OP forgot to post some information about herself, I will use this space to share that info  =D

INFO ABOUT TEAH HALL and her shady dealings:

Here is her negative feedback in serasell

Comments

[shoukanshi_yuna]

I have a hard time believing some of these people are adults lol. But I see this all the time in nerdy online communities. There's a huge group of people who are socially inept IRL, don't have the ability to make IRL friends, and live at home with mommy and daddy while holding down a job so they can spend all their disposable income on merchandise. Then they spend all their free time online, because it's the only place they feel important since no one really cares in the real world. Seeking validation online by having the most stuff, the most followers, etc. It's pretty sad

[killmeneko]

That is what pissed me off the most, is that at the first sign of trouble these girls immediately went running their mouths that I was going to "keep money" and "not send items" just because there was some bad blood. I have never and will never do such a thing, as I value my integrity as a businesswoman way too much.

[nitzcn]

This was a solid post that mirrored a lot of my sentiments exactly. Hate to ride on the coat tails of this post and be like "Yeah I agree" but yeah.......I agree. XD

By the way, you read this group of people PERFECTLY.

[killmeneko]

the best part is she had no idea about any of this and doesn't know them, but she figured it out just like that

[usagimc]

I read everything posted and it was a doozy I tell you. Now I am more of a lurker so haven't really interacted with too many people and the few I have worked with have been awesome. That being said some pretty shitty things have gone down. I completely understand and respect your opinions. In a few instances things that you have posted as proof don't really gel as proof of anything for me. The post becomes more of a rant fest than of actual factual record of misconduct of a monetary issue. (Brook issue in particular

[killmeneko]

Thank you for replying.
Keep in mind that the unfriending and blocking with Brooke all happened within an hour or two. I unblocked her a day or two after that night, once I cooled down, and instead of talking to me like she said she wanted to, she just blocked me instead, thus leaving me no way to communicate with her about the hundreds of dollars of items she had ordered from me. She never tried to contact me or work anything out about those items, nor did she attempt to contact any mutual friends to solve the problem.
I agree about moving on. I posted this to get it off my chest and get the truth about what happened to me out there for others to see. Now that it's done, I hope people learn from it and can get back to what we love to do best- collect and talk about SM goods.

[usagimc]

I totally understand getting things off the chest. There are times when a feeling on a situation just lingers because you don't feel you have the proper closure. And I also don't want to negate your feelings on the matter or make it seem that I am taking sides. I myself am more of a neutral party/devils advocate. When one position is strongly represented I will always see the opposite side and also look at how when people get defensive then extreme reactions lead to a total break down. (This from personal experiences in my own friendships

[killmeneko]

I appreciate what you've said. People can get emotional and do rash things, say stuff they don't mean, and go into total communication failure. When there is no closure to situations like this, those feeling will stay unresolved and build up, as things happen. That $200 I had to pay fucked up my financial situation (worse than it already was) in a big way for a month, and she knew that. Then to find the whole time she's been talking behind my back to god knows who, telling them personal things and straight out lies, is unbelievable. Friending my ex was pretty much the last straw, and I knew I couldn't sit silent anymore, but it took a long time to figure out exactly what I should do. Luckily, my friends advised me and this is the result. I feel like a huge weight has been lifted from me, maybe that is closure

[firemelon]

>Did she get the news FIRST from reddit? Did she hack the official page? We will never know, either way it's shady as hell.

while i cant speak for all of reddit, i know i saw her twitter post before i saw anything in sm sub. im pretty sure they were linking her posts directly

the image directory was private (unless they locked it only after the leak, which i doubt) so either it was hacked some way (i guess), or she manually guessed the file name. assuming it was her.

whoever did tho, its all super sketch to be honest. i bet some poor sap got fired over it.

[krokro]

Hi there! I'm more of a lurker here, I'm too damn shy to post anything.

omg, sorry you had to deal with all that drama while dealing with depression. I've dealt with depression for years, so having people treating you like this is the last thing you need atm!

[whitephantom5]

I'm a lurker too, I just follow the sailor moon hashtag to keep up on news and see peeks of people's collections and fanart and such. I caught a whiff of the drama on twitter. Thank you for making it clear why many communities have gotten so secretive. With this all going down, plus scammers, it's hard to trust. This is such a shame because these communities are a great way to connect with people with similar interests from around the world. Just like in the movie Mean Girls, girls gotta just stop calling each other names and stabbing each other in the backs. As someone who once long ago had been on meds and been through counseling for depression and anxiety, I find it really sad to see that girl was giving you false support and then using your personal issue as some sort of weapon. Depression is like quicksand, it is so so hard to pull out once it gets up to your knees. Well, I love collecting, I love sailor moon and love vintage magical girl items. I hope someday I find a few people to talk to about these interests and I hope that