Oh oh, I do hope you and your whole family will get an improvement from now on. Maybe yes, you can send Koda to get the creche, the candles a few ornaments and whatever you wanted from upstairs? I really hope for a better time for the next 55 years for you and your whole family. *sendgoodvibestoher*
i don't think koda would, at this point, be able to--or care about--finding any of those things. i do know that he'll miss the tree if it doesn't 'magically' appear by christmas, though. twelve is such... an odd age; part tender child, part cool newborn grown-up. i've said it before, and i'll say it again--puberty and menopause existing in the same household is hormonal overkill, and should be outlawed.
i'm praying, even as i type this, that God will, indeed, give me--at least briefly--the physical stamina necessary to fetch the tree. many thanks for the good vibes, hon. *hugs*
G*d, I hate distances. If I didn't live who-knows-how-many-miles away, I'd march right in, and between the two of us we'd be able to make it up the stairs (and safely down again, too) and put up all the decorations. I do hope you get to be able to put some decorations up, and please don't torture yourself with what your amazing son does or doesn't have - he has a mom who loves him more than anything in the world and does everything humanly possible for him, well, isn't that just the kind of mom we'd all wish for? I wouldn't call that minimalistic, dear... I know what you mean, I know where you're coming from, but it's... it's not like that. I'm gonna write you an e-mail. *hugs*
I'd march right in, and between the two of us we'd be able to make it up the stairs (and safely down again, too) and put up all the decorations
and i've no doubt that that's exactly what you'd do, too. and in this case, it's most definitely the thought that counts; it means so much to me, especially at this time. many thanks, sweetie. *hugs*
Thanks so much, yeah, I really would do that. I've just about finished my e-mail, feel a bit apprehensive in sending it, so I'll... edit some more, and then I'll see. *hugs*
I was trying to think of how to say what I wanted to say -- and it turns out hibernia beat me to it. All of it.
And, wow. When you actually list everything that's happened in your world over this last year, what a list! I don't know how I'd be still coherent and even marginally sane, and the fact that you are still standing is simply incredible.
I'm not really the best person to offer assistance with Christmas trees (I don't have one and haven't had one for 10 going on 11 years for nearly the same reason you won't have one this year), but I would help if I could in a heartbeat.
This is the abridged version of my comments because I have a very long history with Christmas trees and what I have to say will either comfort you immensely or offend you beyond measure and because I'm always irrationally afraid of offending people beyond measure I'm sticking with this...
Because *hugs* and Christmas prayers are universal, right?
Hi! I just read this today. I know you don't know me very well, but Mare has known me in person for several years and she'll tell you I'm safe. LOL! I just wanted to say that you are not alone. Having had constant vertigo since last November '07 trying to do even simple things is difficult
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i'm praying, even as i type this, that God will, indeed, give me--at least briefly--the physical stamina necessary to fetch the tree. many thanks for the good vibes, hon. *hugs*
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and i've no doubt that that's exactly what you'd do, too. and in this case, it's most definitely the thought that counts; it means so much to me, especially at this time. many thanks, sweetie. *hugs*
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And, wow. When you actually list everything that's happened in your world over this last year, what a list! I don't know how I'd be still coherent and even marginally sane, and the fact that you are still standing is simply incredible.
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I'm not really the best person to offer assistance with Christmas trees (I don't have one and haven't had one for 10 going on 11 years for nearly the same reason you won't have one this year), but I would help if I could in a heartbeat.
This is the abridged version of my comments because I have a very long history with Christmas trees and what I have to say will either comfort you immensely or offend you beyond measure and because I'm always irrationally afraid of offending people beyond measure I'm sticking with this...
Because *hugs* and Christmas prayers are universal, right?
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