and I was talking about the mentioned husband + wife + kid(s), where he works fulltime to support a family. Just to make that sure. Not about students who work half-time and thus have to live in a similar situation (and work for even less money ;_; )
Eh, I'm not raging at you. I'm raging at the world in general for being so stupid. Also: THE WIFE STAYS AT HOME, THE MAN EARNS THE MONEY. WHAT. DO NOT WANT. WHY DON'T WE RETURN TO THE OTHER SOCIAL NORMS BACK THEN, TOO :D HEY WAIT. WHY AM I NOT MARRIED YET. WHAT AM I EVEN DOING, WORKING FOR A YEAR UNTIL I CAN TRY GETTING INTO MED SCHOOL AGAIN. I'M A GIRL! PFFFFT! BRB FINDING MYSELF A HUSBAND
Oh man, I wouldn't even spend any time on comments like that. Probably came from a man who was taught that "women have to be in the kitchen" and shit like that that puts feminism back at least 60 years.
People also don't think about the possibility that some persons simply don't marry or have a relationship. They still have to care for themselves, right? But no, it appears that women are taught to search for a husband who can provide and men should search for a woman who substitues for the mother in terms of washing, cooking and the like... at least I get that impression quite often.
I thought it was a well-known fact that the SPON Forums are populated by mysoginistic chauvinistic males who think they are the elite of the human race.....never read that forum if you don't want to get angry.
Forgive me for saying this, but there are also plenty of brainless women. Mind you, there are also Barbie doll types who prefer catching a rich guy and then living the easy life from then on.
I think that every girl should be taught to be able to get a job and survive by herself, not depend on a man. Though some of them [the guys] are very nice to have around, and children are not necessarily bad either.
Even now, there are some women stuck in abusive marriages who have no means of support on their own.
the major problem in our time is, that most women have a double burden because they have a job AND the household/kids. it's pretty hard atm. i don't know whether this will be better in - let's say - 10 years.
i think you should (no matter whether you're a man or a woman) learn to provide for yourself first and then think about a relationship aka maybe even living together. i wouldn't want to be dependent financially because i already have very bad experiences with this topic. ah, heavens, help me find a proper job XD
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and I was talking about the mentioned husband + wife + kid(s), where he works fulltime to support a family. Just to make that sure.
Not about students who work half-time and thus have to live in a similar situation (and work for even less money ;_; )
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ASJDIUIUSADHISAHDISHADIUsaiudausi ARAARRRRGHHHHH
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sorry for misunderstanding, because when I reread my points, if felt like quoting your life from high-school times...
For the rest: CAPS LOCK FTW!!!
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Which I think was mainly a) because the women weren't that independent, financially speaking
and certainly b) divorce was VERY much frowned upon.
Therefore yes, with a changing society you have to apply new/different rules.
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Treat your partner with respect, yo! (I guess if we'd all do this, or at least try as much as possible, there'd be less divorces. Hopefully.)
But good for your mom, that she doesn't have to deal with it any longer.
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People also don't think about the possibility that some persons simply don't marry or have a relationship. They still have to care for themselves, right? But no, it appears that women are taught to search for a husband who can provide and men should search for a woman who substitues for the mother in terms of washing, cooking and the like... at least I get that impression quite often.
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For the rest: Amen!
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And if not that, they are just brainless ^^;;;;;;;;;,
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Forgive me for saying this, but there are also plenty of brainless women. Mind you, there are also Barbie doll types who prefer catching a rich guy and then living the easy life from then on.
I think that every girl should be taught to be able to get a job and survive by herself, not depend on a man. Though some of them [the guys] are very nice to have around, and children are not necessarily bad either.
Even now, there are some women stuck in abusive marriages who have no means of support on their own.
I, for one, do not want to go back to the past.
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i think you should (no matter whether you're a man or a woman) learn to provide for yourself first and then think about a relationship aka maybe even living together. i wouldn't want to be dependent financially because i already have very bad experiences with this topic.
ah, heavens, help me find a proper job XD
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