I'm very much amused that somebody on FetLife, a social networking site for people with sexual fetishes, feels the need to organize a Monogamy Lunch (for singles only).
In the fetish scene, monogamy is a minority fetish and one that strongly influences choice of partners, just like being gay. So it's sensible to arrange gatherings for it. Perhaps in the future there will be monogamy singles bars and polygamy singles bars.
It just seems even more difficult to find a monogamous partner who matches your fetishes, while also not driving you nuts with their spending, cleaning, diet, snoring, drinking, etc., other habits. So many factors to consider!
Yeah, Kurt's pretty white-bread life desires - monogamous marriage and kids - are problematic when connected to his sexual desires. I'm no expert in how to get everything you want, though, so I can't really offer him much in the way of help in figuring out how to handle things. Moving away from monogamy would be one viable strategy, though.
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