You are too hard on yourself... but I think deep down most of us are. I think society teaches us that positive self image (which leads to self-confidence) is immodest and perhaps selfish.
I wish that wasn't the case. I wish every kid, when they turn 13 was taken to the top of a mountain and told to scream to the world "Love me or loathe me... I don't give a Fuck! I am what I am!" I think the world would be a better place.
I think it's sad that 100 people can tell a person how great they are, but it only takes one negative comment, at the wrong time to erase all that.
I couldn't agree more about JB. If anyone says they don't like him I want to scream, "are you blind and deaf!!". When he sings, whooo, my knees go weak!
Well I hope my ramble response helped. You know I adore you!
"Feel free to ramble at my journal at any time" - phew! I was worried I might be coming off as a bit of a stalker! ;) I just find you really interesting. You seem like a person who has something to say.
Live Journal is a great way to express yourself. I feel like I can really be myself, you know?
A stalker? Never! Seriously, one of the things I love about LJ is that it gives me a journal where I can talk to friends I otherwise wouldn't have met. That definitely includes you! :)
I do indeed have lots to say....its just that most of it isn't that coherent. :) *hugs* But thank you!
I couldn't agree more about LJ letting you be yourself, its like that for me too. I think for me its because I meet people on here who I have so much in common with, and people who think like me. Or at least thats the way I see it.
As I mentioned before though, feel free to come and be yourself here! My journal would be lonely without you. :)
Haha I know, I know. Buts its just difficult for me to believe in myself, you know about that! But knowing great people like those I have met on LJ is good enough for me. :)
Awww.... no fair! If I was in canada I would go with you!!
It serves me right to be honest, I swear I am on american time. But you get your sleep missus....*wags finger* Besides, its not like your in bed for 9pm every night.... :P
Hmm.....I'm still classing that as a teeny bit of responsibility. Lol, maybe its just because I likes mentioning you in my posts. :P
Haha I shall, I'd prefer it if I could take you. But no, fortunately it doesn't clash, although if you're a ditz then so am I....since I convinced myself and my mother of the exact same thing last night! Haha :P
Ummm.....yes. I think I might just sit in this corner and blush for a little while.....be right back. :P
Awwww do not be sad, its just me being daft that it still bothers me! But I do not like the sounds of this teacher of yours either!!!! :( I think you just might have proved her wrong too you know. :)
Do not apologise! Its another excuse for me to talk to youuu! *hugs back* Never a bad thing.
Random is ok...And Rants are too...Sometimes you need to get a few things off your chest
I'm so jealous you get to see JB! He is just fantastic, musically and physically!
And I really understand about the whole teachers bragging tell you that you are so talent but not believing you when you say you are not good at something.
I am fairy skilled at maths but i believe I have some sort of dyslexia because when i copy and read numbers, i always mix up my 3, 6 and 9. It's bad because i end up getting the whole equation wrong because i wrote 569 instead of 596! I tell people and they're like "nah...You're so good at maths and all"!
I think that was what this was...:S Although I don't think I will make a habit of it.
Completely agree about JB. To be honest, I don't think I quite believe I'm going to see him yet! Lol
Ahhh...that is a bit like me, although my teachers tell me that I am decalculus because numbers seem to get jumbled up in my head and then my mind goes completely blank. Lol, sometimes I can't tell the time off analogue clocks! I think it comes in different forms, but thank you for telling me that! *hugs* It helps to know I'm not on my own, since its not something people bring up in every day conversation. And I can definitely understand your frustration.
*blushes* As for chapter 14....its almost done. I'm hoping to get it online for tomorrow at this rate. Thank you for being so patient and for the lovely comment! :D
Waaaaaaaaaa! You put it on your LJ. Oh you do know how to make me blush like mad, don't you?!
And YAY moar icons I say. :P I love the John one you've got there. :P Lol!
Oh my. I totally know what you mean though. I'm certainly not of the calibre for Oxford or whatever, but I can certainly relate to being called stupid as a child. :/ It sticks with you. But you are intelligent dear! *hugs* (and I totally suck at maths too, so no sweat ;))
OH NOES. Awww sweetie. What happened about JB? :S But nonetheless, you're still incredibly lucky. I wanna see him! LOL How can your friends not like him? He's AMAZINGGGGGG.
Anyway, before I rant on too much I shall hold back! Love, naddy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Haha you deserve it! And I was so proud after getting that text that I had to do something sweetheart!! *hugs you*
and thank you! Lol I am still completely obsessed with him as you know. :P
Hey....I bet you are, if I am you must be! But why do people have the urge to call each other stupid? *hugs you again* You're right it does stick with you, and if someone has said that to you I am tempted to go after them! Lol *puts on angry face* :P
Oh god....its a long story, but we kinda fell out I guess, so I be on my lonesome now. But lol I shall still go and then write a huge blog about it most likely. But I do not understand why they don't like him. They just describe him as "annoying" !!!!! :O
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You are too hard on yourself... but I think deep down most of us are. I think society teaches us that positive self image (which leads to self-confidence) is immodest and perhaps selfish.
I wish that wasn't the case. I wish every kid, when they turn 13 was taken to the top of a mountain and told to scream to the world "Love me or loathe me... I don't give a Fuck! I am what I am!" I think the world would be a better place.
I think it's sad that 100 people can tell a person how great they are, but it only takes one negative comment, at the wrong time to erase all that.
I couldn't agree more about JB. If anyone says they don't like him I want to scream, "are you blind and deaf!!". When he sings, whooo, my knees go weak!
Well I hope my ramble response helped. You know I adore you!
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Live Journal is a great way to express yourself. I feel like I can really be myself, you know?
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I do indeed have lots to say....its just that most of it isn't that coherent. :) *hugs* But thank you!
I couldn't agree more about LJ letting you be yourself, its like that for me too. I think for me its because I meet people on here who I have so much in common with, and people who think like me. Or at least thats the way I see it.
As I mentioned before though, feel free to come and be yourself here! My journal would be lonely without you. :)
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Chérie, take the compliments, there are precious and help us to not be insane and believe ourself (ok, look who talk.....)
Naaaa I know what you mean, I bought to tickets for my fabulous Melody Gardot and no one wants to go with me.......
Take care ma chérie and yes I talk to you right now on msn too..... ;)
Gros calins et big hug
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Haha I know, I know. Buts its just difficult for me to believe in myself, you know about that! But knowing great people like those I have met on LJ is good enough for me. :)
Awww.... no fair! If I was in canada I would go with you!!
*lots of hugs for you!*
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Hmm.....I'm still classing that as a teeny bit of responsibility. Lol, maybe its just because I likes mentioning you in my posts. :P
Haha I shall, I'd prefer it if I could take you. But no, fortunately it doesn't clash, although if you're a ditz then so am I....since I convinced myself and my mother of the exact same thing last night! Haha :P
Ummm.....yes. I think I might just sit in this corner and blush for a little while.....be right back. :P
Awwww do not be sad, its just me being daft that it still bothers me! But I do not like the sounds of this teacher of yours either!!!! :( I think you just might have proved her wrong too you know. :)
Do not apologise! Its another excuse for me to talk to youuu! *hugs back* Never a bad thing.
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Haha good! Sharing the responsibility helps. :P
*hugs* As I have said before, too alike we be sometimes.
*is still refusing to come out of corner. And has put a bag on her head to hide said blushing*
Haha I like that idea!! Only if I can go and hit your teacher though. :P
Haha....we're doing the dual convo thing again. :P
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I'm so jealous you get to see JB! He is just fantastic, musically and physically!
And I really understand about the whole teachers bragging tell you that you are so talent but not believing you when you say you are not good at something.
I am fairy skilled at maths but i believe I have some sort of dyslexia because when i copy and read numbers, i always mix up my 3, 6 and 9. It's bad because i end up getting the whole equation wrong because i wrote 569 instead of 596! I tell people and they're like "nah...You're so good at maths and all"!
I can't wait for ch 14 of TOATA!
Hope everything works out for ya!
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Completely agree about JB. To be honest, I don't think I quite believe I'm going to see him yet! Lol
Ahhh...that is a bit like me, although my teachers tell me that I am decalculus because numbers seem to get jumbled up in my head and then my mind goes completely blank. Lol, sometimes I can't tell the time off analogue clocks! I think it comes in different forms, but thank you for telling me that! *hugs* It helps to know I'm not on my own, since its not something people bring up in every day conversation. And I can definitely understand your frustration.
*blushes* As for chapter 14....its almost done. I'm hoping to get it online for tomorrow at this rate. Thank you for being so patient and for the lovely comment! :D
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And YAY moar icons I say. :P I love the John one you've got there. :P Lol!
Oh my. I totally know what you mean though. I'm certainly not of the calibre for Oxford or whatever, but I can certainly relate to being called stupid as a child. :/ It sticks with you. But you are intelligent dear! *hugs* (and I totally suck at maths too, so no sweat ;))
OH NOES. Awww sweetie. What happened about JB? :S
But nonetheless, you're still incredibly lucky. I wanna see him! LOL How can your friends not like him? He's AMAZINGGGGGG.
Anyway, before I rant on too much I shall hold back!
Love,
naddy
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and thank you! Lol I am still completely obsessed with him as you know. :P
Hey....I bet you are, if I am you must be! But why do people have the urge to call each other stupid? *hugs you again* You're right it does stick with you, and if someone has said that to you I am tempted to go after them! Lol *puts on angry face* :P
Oh god....its a long story, but we kinda fell out I guess, so I be on my lonesome now. But lol I shall still go and then write a huge blog about it most likely. But I do not understand why they don't like him. They just describe him as "annoying" !!!!! :O
Awwww...I do so love your comments dear!
love,
siany
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