Comments | jolfolfille: In which I ramble on about James and feelings and randomness

jolfolfille

In which I ramble on about James and feelings and randomness - feel free to skip over.

Oct 22, 2007 05:25

I know you guys are sick of me posting all the freakin' time, but you're going to have to deal. LJ is how I vent, since I only have James to talk to mostly.

Speaking of James... I guess it's about time that LJland (meaning Karen, Aeron... er, that's it) knew things. Basically, I like James and he likes me. We're not really sure what to do at this ( Read more... )

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falling_wind October 22 2007, 10:41:38 UTC

You don't have to change how you act around him. He likes you for you...not how you act around "boys you like" because you obviously like James, but you aren't doing the girly thing.

jolfolfille October 22 2007, 20:08:10 UTC

It's not a conscious change, it's just... I guess... trying to make them like me more? I don't know. I'm a lot louder and crazier and stuff around my friends than boys. But when I get like that with James it feels funny. I don't knooowwww! O_o

rowanoak5 October 22 2007, 11:16:24 UTC

D you know how much I envy you? No really, I envy best friend couples. If you guys both like each other, then you should be together, at least as long as it lasts. It could last forever, or not. And if you are good enough friends now, you can be friends again if you break up. But if you don't ever try, you won't ever know what you could have had. I'm probably not the one who should be giving advice, but I do think you guys should at least give it a go. As for how to act? He likes you for you, not for you acting differently around him. That would probably just confuse him. If you're confused, let him lead as far as changes go. If he doesn't know how to act either, you guys can figure it out together and no one has to be confused.

jolfolfille October 22 2007, 19:57:25 UTC

Aw, thanks. I agree - if we never try, we'll never know... but it's just so odd. XD And we're basically doing the figuring-it-out-together-as-we-go-along thingy, so good advice giving. ^_^

tinymicrophones October 22 2007, 11:34:51 UTC

<3 your icon

awe, i know how you feel about the best friend situation, it's hard but worth it in the end. don't give up :]

jolfolfille October 22 2007, 20:05:49 UTC

Thanks... yeah, it is hard. And scary. XD But thanks for the encouragement. <3

hypnosfnord October 22 2007, 19:38:11 UTC

I don't know. I honestly have no idea, but I think that y'all will still be friends afterwards anyway, relationships always start out better as long friendships anyway.

Also: I get to be an honorary member, right? :-D

jolfolfille October 22 2007, 20:05:01 UTC

Eh, I guess so. XD

hey_mockingbird October 22 2007, 19:40:13 UTC

IT'S SO WEIRD TO IMAGINE HIM AS A REAL BOY OMG. IMAGINING YOUR BEST FRIEND IN INTIMATE SITUATIONS IS VAIR STRANGE, FYI.

I COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND!!! My best guy friend and I are doing that kind of thing right now and it is SOO awkward. I think, also, that we need to be IM buddies. ^_^ (PS I was gone from LJ for like three days and I missed the random spazziness of ERINS. AND i made icons!!) But I totally get that whole boy friend becoming boy/friend becoming boyfriend...? thing *HUGS*

yis okay!! and if you wanna talk to me on IM (I've never actually talked like in RL (not throgh journals) to someone on LJ before, lol) my username is hypermisspenguin. I'm usually online.

*gives cookies of awesome*

jolfolfille October 22 2007, 19:51:26 UTC

Mm, cookies! ^_^ I don't have AIM at the mo', but I've been meaning to reinstall it... YAY A REASON TO!!! WHOOOO!!!

I'm glad SOMEONE gets it. XD I knew I could count on you! Haha. ^^; <3