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[jimpage363]

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[dlevey]

At one point, just before starting a soloist position (already contracted, but before start date) I went to the synagogue to get an idea of what they wanted for their services. I got to see the person I was replacing, who was, shall we say, nice and enthusiastic. That was fine, until the rabbi made a point of introducing us - and saying I was "his replacement". What possible purpose could that have served?

It *might* be worthwhile for you to meed with the person the eventually select so that you can give them the run-down and do the hand-off. On the other hand, if they didn't like/trust you enough to keep you there, even that may not have a purpose.

Things may be coming to a head because March is often the month used as a deadline, and as we get closer to the end of the month they may be panicking a bit. Good to actively send the no-thanks messages; the Bergen place may be somewhere you need in n years as a just-in-case.

[jimpage363]

Oh, I made it a point to introduce myself and be nice. I will also leave everything in as good and useful order as I can. After all, it's not my successor's "fault" and s/he will be taking care of people for whom I have cared. I would want to leave the best possible situation, as was left for me by my predecessor. I am just trying to be as professional as I can be, although it sometimes slips.

I can't believe the rabbi at the place you mentioned in your post. YIKE.

[kassrachel]

So glad that plans are coming together, even if this whole process has been nutty and perhaps not what one might have wished. *hug*

[jimpage363]

Thank you, ma'am. I just keep reminding myself that I get to choose how I respond and then try to fake it as if I were someone really classy and together. :-) It's working, mostly.

[shrewreader]

Oh, thank heavens, I was worried NJ had retracted their offer.

And seriously, WTF current people? Have you no tact?

[imkalena]

They sound like absolute idiots.

"We fired you? Oh, no hard feelings, and wouldn't you like to train your successor while you're at it?"

I'm kinda waiting for that one.

[shrewreader]

Because, see, it's all for the Greater Glory, so we're not supposed to need to be professional or anything.

Yeah, I get that from the Presbyterians across the street. Especially at Christmas & Easter.

[imkalena]

Honey, these people, I swear!

I think the shooting icon works for this one, too.

[taselby]

I'm glad things are working out for you, even though I would have preferred (for purely selfish reasons) to have you closer.

{{{hugs}}}